I really wish someone had told me it is okay to quit, accept defeat, and that failure isn't really anything. I think it's a "cool thing" for people to live vicariously through; "wow, a story of overcoming insurmountable odds". I've managed to do and accomplish a lot, but had I known that I wasn't really doing things with any chance of long term success, I probably would have found stability and success I actually cared about, earlier in life. Perseverance is cool to talk about, when you're not the one living through it. Sure, it's a cool story to witness in others. I feel like it's maybe not a bad idea to occasionally say "wow, that sucks. Yeah, stop doing that. How? Doesn't matter, just stop". But, I've done what I've done, I've lived what I've lived. I'm generally pretty happy with where/how I've ended up, however, I've grown incredibly skeptical of the intentions and motivations of others who encourage objectively bad ideas. The benefit of this, is that I can leverage this level of understanding in a "no bullshit, brass tacks, down to business" manner. Since I've started doing this, I've been amazed at how much general manipulation the average person deals with on a daily basis. Letting someone know they can just quit anything, be defeated, or failure is an option; that gives them way more options and maneuverability in life. I've personally realized life is only hard when I'm doing something wrong, or something I shouldn't really be doing. "Hard" because of something out of place or artificial, isn't "hard". Driving a car with flat tires, no gas, burnt oil, and an engine running hot is "hard". A mechanic doesn't tell you to just have faith, and keep going. They call you an idiot, fix your vehicle, and maybe teaches you a thing or two, before sending you on your way, probably with a hefty bill. That's not bad. That's someone who fixes mistakes, and prevents mistakes from occurring in the future. They definitely aren't saying something like "I've never seen a vehicle pushed so hard, under such unheard-of conditions. What an inspiration".