In music I find the seasoned pro much easier to deal with.. they have expectations based on reality, where as amateurs you have this kind of “you are supposed to make me famous” mentality which can be tempting to bite at. After all these years I’ve made my peace with it. I know where I am in the scheme of things which helps.. In martial arts it can be the opposite.. some of the guys that have been around a while are pretty hard headed which tends to bring out the “hammer” side of me..