Assalamualaikum warahmatu Allahi wabarakatu. If your parents forcing you to study something that you don't want, will you study it or you will study what you want??! Because i'm second year Med student, but i don't really like this field, and i listened to my parents and I studied Medicine, what should i do now ??

Assalamu alaikum 🌷 I'm looking for a sister who would like to help each other stay accountable and motivated toward our goals I tried doing this with a friend of mine, and it worked good enough for about a year, but lately, she started slacking off, so I started slacking off too and lately we both stopped completely 😅 I don't want to stay like this, especially since I'm someone who gets easily distracted when I don't have someone to hold me accountable We'll be using the same system I used with my friend(with a few modifications) , it's like a game The goals include: 💮 Waking up early 💮 Studying 💮 Learning a skill (something you've wanted to learn for a long time but never got around to or wasn't consistent about it ) 💮 Working out 💮 Morning and evening adhkar 💮 Daily Quran wird (2 pages) For everything you do you earn points, Then after a certain period of time (around 2–3 months), we'll calculate our total points and see who has the higher score. the person with fewer points has to give the winner a gift .Since we're doing this online, it could be something like a digital certificate, a cute design, or anything similar. If you're interested, please message me!

Assalamou alaikoum I'm facing a problem now and I don't know what to do Well we have a school project (make a website but it's only front end html css and Js ) but the team I'm currently in is kinda toxic , they do not listen to my ideas and suggestions and only do as they wish , I'm responsible of making the home page of the website and I need their files (the codes that they wrote for this website ) in order to put it all in one folder and make the links between the pages , the thing is that when i told them to send me the files , one of them told me that she will not send them and she thinks that we have to meet in person first and do the work together, the problem here is that we don't have enough free time between classes to be able to meet up and also I can't focus when people around are talking so I can't be productive if we really go like she said , I told her about this issue but she said that she doesn't care and this is not her problem, I started reconsidering my choice and whether I should keep doing this project with them or abandon all the work I have done and make another projet on my own (the teacher said we can make the project without a team ) , note that we are passing tests right now and pressure is immense as I also have to study for the tests , and if I decide to leave my team I can use Ai to make my work faster If you have been in a similar situation or have any suggestions please don't hesitate to help me , I'll appreciate any advice 😊

Assalamualaikum I am unable to sleep early at night , need to correct my circadian rhythm as it bothers my sleep also I wake up late due to that and regret later, missing FAZR really hurts me. It would be really helpful if FAZR people will advice me on same with their knowledge. Jazakallah khair

Assalamu alaikum everyone. I guess I wanted to write something a little more personal here. Being anonymous makes it a bit easier for me to talk about these things honestly, so I’ll try to explain myself as sincerely as I can. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about myself and the person I want to become. I feel like there’s a significant difference between the person I want to be and the person I am right now, and honestly, that difference has been bothering me quite a lot. Sometimes I genuinely feel like Oblomov from the book.🥲 I have things I want to do, plans I want to follow and goals I care about, but somehow I can spend an unreasonable amount of time just thinking about doing them instead of actually starting. It’s a little funny when I look at it from the outside, but it’s also something I seriously want to change. I know there are things I want to change about myself and my daily life, but knowing what I want and actually being able to do it consistently are very different things. There are days when I feel genuinely motivated and convinced that I’m going to change, and then there are days when I struggle to even start. Recently, I’ve been trying to spend less time on my phone, read more, study languages, exercise, and simply make better use of my time. I’m trying to stop constantly thinking about the person I want to become and actually take steps towards becoming him. I don’t expect myself to change completely overnight. I just want to make real progress, even if it’s slow. I joined this community because I’d like to have genuine conversations, meet people with different experiences and perspectives, and hopefully learn something from being here. I’m not really used to opening up about these things, so even writing this feels a little strange, but I think the anonymity makes it easier to be honest. :)