Flowers Flowers have a unique history in relation to death. Before the advent of modern embalming and preservation techniques, dead bodies often carried a foul stench even after they were embalmed. In order to prevent funeral attendees from being offended by these odors, flowers were used to mask the unpleasant smells of decaying bodies. Since that time, flowers have played an integral role in death, burial, and memorial rites. We often take flowers to individuals on their sickbed. We likewise take flowers to the funeral home or burial site during wake and funeral ceremonies. And it is common to include flowers in memorial services immediately and years after a person’s death. In this way, flowers have become symbols of love, honor, respect, and remembrance rather than deodorizers. In this same vein, it is acceptable and appropriate to give flowers as part of ancestral veneration rituals. You can place flower offerings on your ancestor altar, at the grave of your ancestors, in a nearby cemetery, or other amenable location. White flowers are typically given as ancestral offerings. However, you can also offer your ancestors some of their favorite varieties. Flowers can be provided for ancestors on a weekly, monthly, bi-annual, annual basis, etc. However, if you are giving live flowers, be sure that they are fresh, not dry, old, or withered. Once they begin to die, it is best to remove them from the offering space. Music Music is one of my favorite offerings to my ancestors. It is a meditative practice that helps me connect with them on a deep, soulful level. Music can likewise be a simple and delightful offering for both you and your ancestors. The first thing you need to do is select the right music. As with all things when dealing with your ancestors, the music you choose should always be high vibrational. This means that it should have clean, uplifting, inspiring lyrics and tones. Otherwise, you risk attracting negative or low vibrational energies. Also, your ancestors may be offended by certain types of music, so be mindful when choosing music for your ancestors.