If you're going through a transition in your life right now can you raise your hand? I asked this at my recent live event in London a few weeks ago… And was surprised to see LITERALLY 85 percent of the people in the rooms hands go up Take this as a sign that if you are seeing this email… YOU may be going through a big transition too…(or about to) Here is a few pieces of advice that have made it easier for me 1. It’s okay to not have it all figured out right away… I have been self reflecting on my own next phase of focus… And realized through coaching sessions, meditation and other insights… That what I love is creating content and running live events And yet much of where my energy goes currently is other things… And when I am in the energy of doing what I love…. Magic happens And I love the process! This insight has come from a few months of having NO IDEA where I should be putting my energy And getting in my head to figure it out I SHOULD BE DOING THIS OR THAT…. Etc because someone else is doing it… etc (the comparison trap) And I’ve realized that I can trust the energy more than just the logic and mind who is looking for certainty Give yourself SPACE and TIME to figure it out embrace the unknown and trust that something greater is aligning and forming 2. Fear is not a sign to STOP its a sign you are about to expand your comfort zone and claim a new self image Back in 2017 when I first started making videos on Youtube… I had a ton of FEAR… What would my friends from high school think of my esoteric perspectives? What if I fail and no one ever watches my videos? Am I even worthy to making videos? Why me? Etc And what I realized is through the REPS of making videos… Of EMBRACING that fear… My self image transformed And my confort zone expanded As i put myself out there it became “normal” to do so What used to being me nerves and doubt…(looking into a camera) Became easy the more I did it I have a friend that spent the last 3 months in fear around doing a 30 day challenge of posting on Instagram…

did you have to be "good" growing up? and did being "good" mean abandoning yourself? did it mean saying yes when you feel NO? did id mean being "perfect" or always having an answer? did it mean getting approval or validation to feel "safe" or enough? what where the conditions growing up to getting or receiving "love" these conditions are normally "conditional" and a result of believing love wasn't something you got just for being growing up I had to walk on eggshells and gain the approval of my ex step mom... this led to playing a subconcious game of proving my worth and being the "good" person who fixes people and situations this patttern also attracted people who I felt I needed to "fix" it wasn't until I became aware of this pattern that I began to become free and that meant embracing my DARK side... expressing how I really felt... and not being attached to outcome or easing the other persons tension not being afraid to be "the bad guy" for setting boundaries or saying NO letting people work through their own stuff instead of coming to the rescue to fix (enable) todays self inquiry is one to hopefully begin the process to free you from the subconscious patters of who you believe you myst BE to receive love and what can you EMBRACE on the other side of it? share your answers below and read what others say! on my way to Europe right now on the plane and thought I would post this for fun!