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Owned by Tibi

Being "At My Place" doesn't mean being alone. It means knowing your worth and building relationships without losing who you are.

112 contributions to At My Place
When the mind says "enough", but the rhythm pulls you up
With this music in my ears, I am not just lifting added weight and my own body—I am lifting myself out of doubt. Do you know that moment during a workout or in life when your head starts to whisper: “You don’t feel like it today, just drop it, take a break”? In that moment, I don’t need motivational speeches. All I need is to play this Nordic track (Iseblod), put on my headphones, and let the body take action. My mind goes down to zero, and all that is left is the present moment and the pull upward. Music will not add physical strength to your muscles, but it does one key thing: it turns off the inner troll that is holding you back. Again and again, my core rule is proven true: The body wants to move, and the mind wants to believe. When you give your body a spark, your mind will follow. Turn on the video with sound. What is your go-to song that always pulls you out of your head and straight into your power?
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When the mind says "enough", but the rhythm pulls you up
Nobody is coming to save you (Stop waiting to feel 100% ready)
For years, I was waiting to finally feel 100% ready. And you know what? Nobody came to save me. I kept buying more courses, filling notebooks with endless notes, and waiting for the doubt to magically disappear. I was constantly looking outside for some magic roadmap to life... Until I finally realized: The doubt never leaves until you actually take the step. Waiting for certainty is a trap. That is why I created At My Place. We stop waiting for 100% certainty—we just find the closest doable step you can take today. I recorded this raw 30-second reminder 👉 https://youtube.com/shorts/kEpTEA9W-5k Question for today: What is one thing you keep delaying because you are waiting to feel "100% ready"—and what is the smallest doable step you can take right now anyway?
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@Yordi Nolet thank you very much 🙏👍
Caught in my own trap today (and the 5-minute first aid I need WAY too often)
Today, I caught myself running my classic old pattern again. My mind was trying to juggle 10 big things at once: finish old videos, film new ones, build complex systems, and over-complicate simple ideas. The result? My brain was spinning at 200%, my body froze, and that familiar voice whispered: “You're not ready yet, it’s not perfect...” So I stopped. Instead of feeding the mental spiral, I dropped down for 20 push-ups at work, reconnected with my body, and teamed up with a good friend to put together the exact tool I always need: a 1-page PDF: "First Aid for Overthinking". It comes down to 3 simple steps: 1. Physical RESET (60 seconds): Out of your head into your muscles, because the body wants to move and the mind only believes after. 2. Name the troll (30 seconds): Acknowledge the fear, take it by the hand, and move forward anyway. 3. A laughably small binary step (within 3 minutes): One tiny physical action instead of building giant mental castles. I am attaching the PDF right here. I made it for myself because I honestly need it all the time—but if you're standing in front of your own bridge today, hesitation in your chest, this is for you too. Download it, check out the sketch, and drop a comment below: What is one laughably small step you are going to take today?
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For me it was, to create this pdf :)
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@Yordi Nolet it looks like that you have a great system 👍 And you not overthink as I do
Why I stopped running from my shadow (What happens when you turn around)
We don't spend most of our energy on real action, but on trying to hide the things we don't want to see about ourselves. For years, I lived just like you see on the left side of the picture: full of tension, tight shoulder, and feeling like a dark ghost was always hanging behind my back. My own ghost of doubts, failures, and the fear that "I am not enough." I spent all my strength trying not to turn around. I tried to look strong, refined my concepts in silence, and waited for that shadow to finally disappear forever. It never disappeared. Ghosts don't disappear when you run from them—in fact, they feed on your fear and grow. Only when I entered the "At My Place" space did a key truth click: This ghost is not an enemy from the outside world. It is a part of me. When you step into your own place, you don't need to hide it, fight it, or shake before it. You can calmly turn around, look it right in the eye (just like on the right), and accept it. Suddenly you see that instead of claws, this ghost has the gentle face of a friend. It is not about erasing your shadows. It is about noticing them, accepting them, and having the freedom to choose how you respond to them. The goal of this community is not to create perfect people without fear. The goal is to stop hiding—and finally be truly at home with ourselves. 🌟 First At My Place, then everything else. When you look behind yourself honestly today: What "ghost" or fear are you still trying to hide from the world? Just by bringing it into the light and admitting it, it stops being a monster and becomes an ally on your journey.
Why I stopped running from my shadow (What happens when you turn around)
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@Yordi Nolet thank you very much for the msg 🙏
Why I didn't step onto the bridge for years (and my personal troll called "I am not enough")
For a long time, I lived in the illusion that the grass is much greener on the other side of the bridge. At the same time, I tried to convince myself that my side was totally fine—just so I wouldn't have to admit one uncomfortable truth: I was simply afraid to step onto that bridge. Why? Because right in the middle of the bridge sits a troll. For a long time, I pretended he wasn't there, or that I still needed to study more, gain more experience, and prepare better. But my real troll didn't have horns or claws. My troll's name is: "Showing myself to the world as I truly am." A voice that whispered in my ear for years: "Whatever you know, it is not enough." "There are so many people in the world who know this a hundred times better than you." "Who do you think you are to have something to say?" So I stood on the shore. Waiting for the troll to leave. Waiting for doubt to disappear, waiting for 100% certainty and bulletproof confidence. Only recently did a key truth click for me: The troll will never leave the bridge. He will never disappear before the first step. And most importantly—that troll doesn't live outside. He is not a strangers on the internet or critics. That troll lives entirely at my own place. He is my own doubt turned into the fear of reality. So I decided to do the only smart thing: Stop waiting until I am "perfect." I accepted the fact that what I know today might not be enough for everyone—and that there are definitely people who are further ahead. Even so, I take action with what I know right now. Every single post I publish in this group is my handshake with this troll. It is proof that stepping onto the bridge doesn't mean having no fear, but taking action despite the fear. The goal is not a perfect result. The goal is that quiet pride that you didn't let the troll run your life. Because the body wants to move, and the mind only believes once I actually step onto that bridge. What sentence is your troll telling you today when you try to take a step forward?
Why I didn't step onto the bridge for years (and my personal troll called "I am not enough")
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@Yordi Nolet Thank you very much for sharing 👍 I can purely relate with this So lets switching the mind setup and sell as a PRO 🤩
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Balance Bender | Founder At My Place Stop waiting for certainty. We take the next doable step in life and body. ⚡ The body moves, the mind believes.

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