1. Anita’s Law of Identity Consumption The energy required to defend an old identity is the exact budget denied to your growth. 2. Anita’s Law of the Strategic Hostage When you master a tactic before you master yourself, the tactic becomes the master. 3. Anita’s Law of Internal Complexity Any solution that requires a system to change its nature to survive will be rejected by the system as a disease. 4. Anita’s Law of Compensatory Effort The louder you have to state your authority, the faster your actual influence is leaving the room. 5. Anita’s Law of the Blind Loop An unexamined behavioral pattern will always disguise itself as an unavoidable twist of fate. Follow Anita for more insights into human behavior and structure.

It is choosing your relationships, which is also avoiding some... Your income.... Your confidence.... Your future..... And the cruel part is this: Because you never officially chose it, you may not realize how much of your life has already been organized around it. So maybe the question is not (actually its never that question) What decision have you been avoiding? Maybe the real question is: What has that avoided decision already cost you — and how much longer are you willing to keep paying for it? Any comments?

....Not because the choice was insignificant, but because what you kept avoiding quietly became your lifedirection. Which unmade decision has been shaping your life in your absence — and what if facing it now is the decision that changes everything?

Do you feel you try to sell yourself or justify yourself too much? Does this feel like a performance of some sort? One that if you had to watch it you would leave the room before the show was over? If yes then why not try an alternative? Do. And if you do really care about doing then who cares about selling or justifying? That kind of doing is self-explanatory. What do you think?

I had so much fun. Great experiences, great people and great insights and personal transformations. It's fun when we begin to perceive possibilities instead of insurmountable challenges. I am so grateful to have shared that experience....in the spirit of never ending discovery...Namaste Guys...