I see 2 options: 1.) A female spade connector on the wire to the cap is loose, causing resistance. Higher resistance causes heat and that will melt the wire insulation and may cause the cap to leak and die. A dead cap may kill a Soft Starter. Cap could also short out and cause the wire insulation to melt. Bottom line: wire or cap are the root cause here. 2.) The windings inside your compressor are on the way out, slowly decreasing effective impedance. In order to overcome, it will pull more current. Neither the wire nor the cap are designed to deal with out of spec higher current draw, hence they overheat and fail. Then a dead cap will also kill the Soft Starter. This is what _I_ would do. Obviously, there can be more or other issues at hand. Replace the cap, wire and connector. Make sure ALL connectors sit stiff and tight on the cap. if they wiggle, squeeze them tighter with pliers or replace. Then measure amp draw of the compressor and fan with an amp meter such as a Klein Tools CL320 Clamp Meter, and compare with the specs on datasheet on the condensing unit. If amp draw is within spec, install new soft starter if you want to. If fan motor draws more, replace it. If compressor draws more, do an HVAC acid test. They can be found on Amazon for 5 bucks. If acid test is positive, you should consider a new system. If acid test is negative, replace compressor very soon, before it contaminates the rest of the system and you can't pump the refrigerant down into the condensing unit anymore - then you would need a recover machine and tank on top of all other tools.