The fastest way to change your behavior has nothing to do with willpower. 🌈 Here's a 30 second mental model that changes everything for moms who are building a business. Imagine you were a thriving entrepreneur. Consistent income, a schedule you controlled, work that lit you up, and time left over for your kids. Now imagine you woke up tomorrow and none of that existed. How fast would you fight to get it back? Lightning fast. Because your brain would be screaming "this is not me." That is identity based motivation and it is the most powerful force in human behavior. Here is the practical hack that comes from this: 👉 Write out in vivid detail what your life looks like stuck in the version you do not want. No business. No income. Completely dependent. No flexibility. Missing school pickups because you are working a job you hate. Print it. Put it somewhere you see it every single day. Your first instinct might be "won't that just make me feel bad?" No. And here is why. We are not pleasure seeking creatures. We are discomfort avoiding creatures. 🚨 Your brain is wired to move away from bad things before it moves toward good ones. That is just biology. That reminder is not there to make you feel guilty. It is there to create cognitive dissonance. Your brain sees it, registers "that is not my life," and quietly starts setting a course to correct it. No motivational quotes needed. It just gets to work. Stop trying to pull yourself toward your goals. Start making it uncomfortable to stay where you are. 👇 What version of yourself are you done tolerating?

I’m not even being dramatic when I say… I’m shook. I’ve got someone ready to upgrade right now…but because they’re not tech-savvy, it’s suddenly a whole thing 😩 Like… it should NOT be this hard! I’ve already spoken to support, they’re aware of it and working on it but there’s no ETA on a fix. And yeah, the workaround they gave is helpful. BUT it assumes people have a computer and feel confident using it. And let’s be real, not everyone does. So now I’m sat here with a member who wants to upgrade and literally can’t. Which is wild. Now I’m wondering. Other community owners did you know this? Because I genuinely didn’t. 💭 And tell me have you ever had someone ready to buy or upgrade but the tech made it harder than it needed to be?

I have been using nothing but nursing bras for the past several years (thanks constant pregnancy and postpartum). It's time for me to buy more bras. this is what i'm looking for: ❤️ something supportive to help push up the deflated balloons left over from nursing ❤️ something comfortable without underwire ❤️ something that doesn't have the pad in there that gets moved around and ruined every time I wash it and ideally something that won't cost an arm and a leg for each bra I buy. 👇 What's everyone wearing?

We are doing some spring cleaning this weekend, I have a podcast episode to film with someone, and then i'm working and showing the hubby the ropes about skool community management. What are you guys up to this weekend?

I am getting a refrigerator delivered so I have to cancel today's co-working call!