Niko, you broke my heart!💔 I don't know if I ever want to see you again, but now I just can't. We both know why. I could have handled you not liking me (I’ve done it before, and you know it), but I cannot handle that, as my friend, you chose to play with me without taking responsibility for all of this. You knew I liked you, and I knew you liked me, even if you never told me. I also know why you didn't find the courage to pursue me. You were scared because you didn't know where all of this would lead....because we were colleagues, and because if it didn't work out, our friendship would be ruined, and you might lose me from your life. But is it better now? You are going to lose me from your life without ever knowing what would have happened if... And you will lose me not because you didn't choose me (which honestly hurts), but because while you were flirting with me, you got together with someone else—and the worst part is that you 'forgot' to tell me. And you forgot it not out of fear of hurting me, but so you wouldn't lose what you felt when you were with me. Even now, I can't believe you did all that just to feed your ego, even though the 'evidence' points to that. It is truly a shame, because I held you in such high regard. I always had such beautiful feelings for you and felt such wonderful things around you (safety, respect, care). However, I now recognize that everything I felt for you or around you was actually parts of my own self. So, I am taking it all back now! Unfortunately, I don't have anything positive to wish you at this stage. Not because I stopped loving you, but because it embittered me that you assumed that just because I am kind and decent, you can do whatever you want to me with zero consequences. The consequences start right now, and one of them is that you no longer have access to me. So thank you for the lessons you gave me, even though till now I wish you weren't just another lesson in my life, but a love story. However, I promise you that this 'sacrifice' will not go to waste; from this point on, it is engraved inside me not to wait for anyone, not to choose someone who doesn't show me their interest consistently, and finally, not to constantly make excuses for others just because I am understanding or give them space. So, I am setting you free, because as it turns out, you were never worthy of me!

15 years ago I was at a tree farm. I saw an odd clump of lush green shoots and asked what it was. " Garbage" was the answer.....a pear tree that had died. I asked them how much for it. They laughed and dug it up. It was free. A bunch of foot tall shooters and a 200 lb root ball!! Laughing at myself, I took it home, dug a gigantic hole and planted it. It is now 15+ feet tall. It's has magnificent orange fall leaves that are the last leaves to drop. It just needed to he cared for a little and not discarded, and it transformed into majesty. If a "dead", "garbage" pear tree can do that....think what we can do!

How often in conversation with someone can you feel yourself steering them in any direction? Wanting them to see their power, wanting them to like you, wanting them to be positive, etc? Isn’t it interesting how that energy has the opposite effect? The more you want them to be positive, the more they go into their problems… The more you want them to like you, the more you can feel yourself repelling them… The more you want them to see their power, the more they go into victim mode and don’t… Here is something I’ve learned from 9 years of coaching 1,000’s of people And you can apply this in your life with friends, co-workers, etc I’ve learned that for the coaching to be powerful… I have to have NO AGENDA and be willing to go into the unknown My job is to be present and to connect to the part of themselves that have the answers inside of them I ran a live call on Monday in my 21 day challenge and while on it I could feel how the more present I am, the more the people become as a reflection In that present energy people feel safe and connect to themselves where all the answers are A few years ago I would have an agenda to “get people into their power” “see their patterns and let them go” “heal their shadows” etc That energy infuses the belief that they aren’t whole the way they are and don’t have the power inside of themselves and need ME People are either opening their hearts/energy or are in protection and closed/contracted When YOU open, you allow others to open through state transference It reminds me of when people talk about how how enlightened people would not see people as “sick” and in their presence they would be healed Today's message of the day is to practice being present by accepting the moment as it is, and trusting that the people around you have the answers inside them That belief will hold a frame for them that will allow them to tap into their own power And in that energy you won’t take on responsibility for their energy too Let me know in the comments below:

My shell is cracking. It’s clear I shifted & this is too big to ignore. With the help of Aaron AI, this prayer manifested yesterday. Today, it solidified. If we read it 3x, send it to 3 people who read it 3x & they send it it 3 more… the possibilities are endless💖

When we commit to healing our trauma, our mind may rebel. Why? Because we're not just healing our wounds. We're challenging the entire survival system we've spent years building around them. We learned to please everyone to avoid rejection, control everything to avoid disappointment, and build walls to avoid getting hurt. Then we decide to change, and our brain hits the panic button. "EXCUSE ME! We've been surviving this way for 30 years. Who authorized this nonsense?" 😂 Our mind isn't necessarily our enemy. It's an overprotective bodyguard who hasn't realized we're no longer living in the same war zone. So when healing feels uncomfortable, remember: not every resistance is a sign to stop. Sometimes, it's an old survival strategy struggling to accept that we have other options now. We're not broken. We're outgrowing the version of ourselves that had to be. And our inner bodyguard? Bless its heart. It's time for a performance review. 😂💜