How do you get your story into conversation without it all being about you. Let's start simple: 1- Ask others about them. 2- Connect their story with yours. 3- Take it straight back to them. This is tried and tested and works every time. What might happen: 1- They just continue to talk about themselves. 2- They stop talking about themselves and ask more about what you just shared. 3- They shut down because you interrupted their flow. What should you do?: 1- Ask them for more detail, to go deeper, to explain more - show interest and they'll love you for it because most people love talking about themselves. Just don't become that person yourself (yet). 2- Tell them "I'm more interested in what you were you were saying about.....Carry on" 3- They may be offended by your interruption but that's okay. You can fix this. "Anyway, you haven't told me nearly enough about.......Tell me more!" The human state is naturally selfish. When you give someone space enough to be selfish, and even encourage it, you build 'credits of trust'. You can cash these in later but you need to give the investment time to mature.

Thank you for joining this amazing group. It's early days, so, this group is counting on you to start the conversation. Start with some, or all, of the following: (Let's start talking before we jump right in with our stories. When you reach Level 2 (the number on your profile picture) you can post your story, testimonial, share your product or service journey ets. Please select the right category. If in doubt, select general discussion and we will sort it later) What are your hobbies? What is your favourite genre of films/ movies or music? Are you a: Lion 🦁 - you get stuff done. The only timeline is either right now or a few minutes after right now. Otter 🦦 - some things get done and some things don't. As long as everyone is having a good time my job is done. Beaver 🦫 - the job will get done but not until it can be done right. Golden Retriever 🐕- I'm in no rush, you don't need to notice me, as long as everyone feels safe, I'm good. (Based on Smalley & Trent) What would you like to see in this group? (Development ideas/ improvements/ new category topics).