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May 11 •
First edition pre order Mana Maori Oracle deck
This has been a labour of love for nearly 2 years! It’s the medicine that I gave myself and now I give this medicine to many others in their readings. My decks are finally on sale. https://dealingwithdes.com/shop/e9281065-ddf7-4fc9-a41d-df96a43dc3a0 First edition pre orders now open.
0 likes • May 11
I just ordered them!
Apr 22 •
Lost!!!
I’m finding this really hard to carry right now. Sleep and appetite - non existent. My beautiful man is on my mind constantly. Our connection hasn’t gone away - it’s strong, and at times I can sense his energy, the connection between us is still very much alive - he feels for me and misses me deeply - that is certain!. I know that might be hard to explain, but to me it is real. The love is still there, and that makes it even harder to sit in this distance, both physical and emotional, and not know what’s truly going on for him. What I do know for certain is how I feel. I love him deeply, and I’m not ready to give up on that. This isn’t something I can just switch off or walk away from. 🤍 At the same time, I’m trying to stay aware that I can’t control his choices or his situation, but I’m sitting in this space between holding on to love and trying not to lose myself in it -and I don’t quite know how to balance that yet. I just needed to share this honestly, because I’m struggling and have no one to talk to😥. GOD! I wish I had friends or family I could talk to
2 likes • Apr 22
I am really sorry that you are going through this. I will be married 20 years this June, and one thing that I have just come to realize with relationships is that they require more than just love to survive. Relationships are hard work requiring lots of open, honest and hard conversations, but it can't be one-sided. Both need to be active participants, and if this doesn't happen, it makes it extremely difficult to move forward as a couple. For my situation, love is the only reason my marriage has survived for this long. We never argued one time in the 23 years that we have been together. On the outside, it looks like we have the "perfect" marriage, but, in reality, we have a marriage that was just barley surviving because we have never had an emotional talk. We never had an open conversation about anything difficult or hurtful or honest. We would lie to each other just to try and stay away from the hard conversations. Holding things back caused things for me to be even more hurtful. It caused me to internalize every emotion which made my life miserable. What I learned from being hurt in my marriage was that I didn't love myself anymore. I was so wrapped up trying to love my wife harder that I lost myself. Imagine 20 years of losing yourself and your identity. Trying so hard to make my marriage work took a serious toll on my mental, physical, and emotional health. Once I asked myself why I was staying, I realized that I was staying for the wrong reasons. I began to take care of my physical wellbeing. I began talking to a therapist. I began to love myself again. But I had to do these things while realizing that my marriage is probably over, and I have come to terms with that. So I know that things are hard for you right now, and it isn't going to get any better anytime soon. But you have to start loving yourself first. Do things that you loved to do before you met him. Be in nature with the sun shining on you. Try to start smiling more even when it's difficult. You WILL get through this, but it's just going to take time. Anytime you need to get something off your chest, just message the group. This is why Des started the Soul Tribe, and this is why we are all here.
Apr 15 •
I’ve got a feeling more of you are in this than you realise
If you’re currently in a ‘waiting’ situation… uncertain, in-between, not fully chosen… just comment or react below. No details needed.
3 likes • Apr 15
This is me. Uncertain if Ishould move on or move forward in my marriage.
Apr 11 •
What's your current love status?
Welcome in to those of you who've just joined...lovely to see our wee group growing .... here's me doing a pulse check on who we have in here. Don't worry I think the polls are anonymous, or I just haven't figured it out yet? 🤔
Poll
16 members have voted
0 likes • Apr 13
Its so complicated
Feb 13 •
Choose your path (Step 2)
If you’ve just come from the welcome post… take a breath. Be honest with yourself…Where are you right now? 💔 I’m waiting on someone You’re still holding on… hoping… checking your phone… trying not to spiral. Start here → Go to the Classroom tab and open The Sacred Wait 🔥 I’ve been hurt or betrayed Something’s happened… and you’re trying to process the shock, the pain, the confusion. Start here → Go to the Classroom tab and open Betrayal Support You don’t need to do both. You don’t need to figure everything out today. Just choose where you are right now… start there. If neither of the above is your situation, go to the Classroom tab and check out the Lounge area for other resources that may be of interest to you. Don't forget, grab a cuppa whilst you get comfy and have a look around. Lastly, if you're up to it, drop a hello and introduce yourself, even it's a simple "hi everyone, I"m new" ok? Des x
1 like • Apr 13
Thank you for having this
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