Imagine the most confident version of YOU You don’t chase approval, you know your worth You don’t tune to others wondering if you are “safe” You feel secure in your attachment style and aren’t trying to prove yourself to anyone You give yourself permission to be you and know that those that resonate with you will find you and those that don’t may fall away And that's okay… You choose to regulate your nervous system and choose to surround yourself with people who do the same You don’t chase love nor push it away due to past patterns… This version of you exists right now… and you can tune to it using meditation AND by modeling their actions and belief patterns What would the most confident version of do? Let this be the mantra and intention to embody On June 3rd I am thinking of running a 21 Day Confidence LOVE challenge to help you embody this version of you… Would you want to join? It will include LIVE hot seat coaching, breathwork, live meditations and a brand new zoom breakout group exercise to have others SEE you as this version of you Focus is on feeling safe inside your own body, healing your attachment style, releasing people pleasing tendencies, letting go of being a “fixer” and finally feeling confident in who you are and your ability to attract love (or go deeper in your relationship) Anyways super excited about this wanted to check in to see if it resonates p.s can you comment on this post if you want to join?

what sparked the shift? share below! I used to believe I was alone on my journey of awakening because when I first had my spiritual awakening family members and friends didn't understand me. I also believed others where "low vibe" or just not "awake enough" to relate. I eventually realized that my belief that there weren't other like me BLOCKED deeper connections in my life. Thinking others weren't awake enough was a way my ego could feel better about myself and cover up any shame around feeling alone. I now don't but into spiritual superiority or anyone being HIGHER vibe than anyone else... I believe we are all on our own paths and no one path is better than another. This perspective has allowed me to connect to people much easier and find my own high vibe tribe. Whats your belief you've shifted or let go of? share below!

Filling out the last part gave me some positivity and hope. 🙌 I realized I've been abandoning myself quite a lot in different areas and always make excuses for myself why it's ok to show up for myself this way. No wonder in romantic relationship I am not chosen and being left when I show up in such a way for myself.

So I finally did the empty chair technique- it took me I think a week or more to get past excuses and fears to do it. Especially cause I’ve been in touch with my ex for the past couple weeks though for about a week we’ve not had contact. Reflecting on the exercise I think what prevented me to do it earlier was the fear of letting go of my ex and my wish for the relationship to renew. I assume subconsciously I was worried that expressing the unsaid things and unfelt emotions made the situation as it is right now too real or put the energy into the universe that I don’t want him back. Doing the exercise relased A LOT of emotions and I realized that I made my self pretend that I’m further in the healing process than I actually am. It also confirmed that I’m on the right path and that I know what I need to do in order to heal. It also confirmed that the current version of my ex is NOT the partner I deserve and that I’m worth so much more than what he is giving me and the way he’s treating me. I’m such a loving and beautiful and caring soul, and whoever doesn’t see or appreciate me is not worth my time or energy or emotions. As I’m reflecting on this I also feel that letting go of the pattern I uncovered (my fear of being and dying alone without ever having experienced real reciprocated romantic love and without a partner or kids) is the ONLY way to create the future I desire. As long as I hold on to that fear I will be attached to my ex or any new person I meet and would not be able to be the partner I want to be and I wouldn’t be able to experience life fully with also the GOOD sides. Holding on to the fear gives me permission to be the victim of life and love and honesty I’m F*CKING TIRED OF IT. I wanna RECLAIM my life, my happiness, my love, my joy and my passion. My little gremlin is telling me that I don’t know how to do it cause focusing on myself hasn’t shown real result so far. But that’s not true, that’s the victim trying to stay in victim-mode. No more. 😇 Time for Martin 2.0 to show up ❤️✨

This morning, during my usual gratitude meditation, a question bubbled up from my conscious mind: 😏"Can you handle this much happiness?" And my soul? It smiled and replied: 🤩"Oh yeah, baby… there's so much more on the way. Just watch me!" Yes, it is possible to have everything you've ever wanted show up like a miracle tornado—zero effort, maximum sparkle. That's my reality. Just stay parked in the NOW, kick back, and enjoy the cosmic popcorn. 🌪️✨🍿