Stage Fright, Gig Nerves, and What to Do About Them Hi everyone, I recently caught up with a former student of mineāa tremendously talented, kind, and professional young guitarist whose band is quickly gaining recognition. Honestly, he was a fantastic player even before I met him! He reached out to talk about stage fright and gig nerves. Thatās something almost everyone has faced in some form: at work presentations, public speaking, giving a toast, or performing music. So, how do you deal with it? My Wedding Performance Story I once played classical guitar for a wedding in upstate New Yorkāprelude pieces by Bach, Sor, and TĆ”rrega. Surprisingly, I wasnāt nervous at all. Even as the seats filled with guests, I stayed calm. But then, the back doors opened. The bride appeared in one of the most beautiful dresses I had ever seen. Suddenly, emotion hit me like a wave. I thought of my own wedding, my own bride, and the importance of this moment. I was about to play Pachelbelās Canon in D when my right hand started to shake. For the first time, I truly felt the weight of being the soundtrack to one of the most important days in someoneās life. What saved me was something simple: - I whispered to myself, āItās just business.ā - I focused on breathing in through my nose, out through my mouthāslow, steady, controlled. As I forced my breath to slow down, everything shifted. It was almost an out-of-body experience. I just heard the music flowing, saw the bride walking down the aisle, and felt myself detach from the overwhelming emotion. My preparation took over, and muscle memory carried me through. The lesson? Emotion is powerful, but professionalism and preparation must guide you. Practical Ways to Tackle Stage Fright Here are some strategies Iāve relied on and often share with students: Preparation = Confidence 1. Practice until mistakes are rare. If your fingers know the songs inside out, nerves have less power over you. 2. Check your gear at home. Make sure guitar, amp, mic, and cables all work. 3. Pack extras. Strings, picks, capo, strap, batteries, cablesāeven an extra guitar if you can. 4. Know the venue. Visit the space in advance if possible so nothing feels foreign.