Hi! I’m Marisa from Kansas. I’m here because my husband and I are in the thick of it with four kiddos, number 5 on the way, and we are stuck in a cycle of broken communication and keep having the same fights over and over again. Our reactions are getting bigger, faster, and we are both so frustrated and lonely in our marriage. The biggest thing I’m working on in my marriage right now is to see things through my husband’s eyes before responding/reacting through my own lens only. I’m also trying to create more connection in small ways and show that I’m not against him, but a for us.