@Lee Simmons thank you so what would you advise me to do ? We agreed verbally after we both take space for a few days that after we both take that space we shall meet and talk and decide where the relationship is heading . I am worried because so far neither her or me have messaged to each other and I am really confused because I don’t know if I should I stay or should I end this relationship! Any tips ?

@Diane Marincowitz To be fair, the break was actually my decision first and she agreed to it. We both felt emotionally overwhelmed and decided to take one week without messaging/calling/meeting so we can think more clearly and evaluate the relationship calmly instead of continuing arguments and emotional reactions. We also agreed to meet again on Saturday this week to talk and decide where we stand and if this relationship is healthy to continue or not. So it’s not really a “disappearing without a plan” situation, but more taking some space to reflect because things became emotionally intense between us. I’m still trying to understand myself and the situation honestly. What do you personally think about that kind of break dynamic? Something that felt of is that I discovered unfortunately that she’s avoidant and I am a bit anxious attachment but I am aware of my patern so part of me wants to end this relationship to protect my self emotionally but my gut tells me something is off i am noticing that she is watching my stories on my WhatsApp status but hasn’t messaged me yet even though she said that break will be difficult for her because she will miss me and won’t be able to hold herself to dont message me but I feel like her words doesn’t match her actions or maybe that’s the insecuritties in me talking What do you think I should do any tips ?