I was out at a famous club in Bali yesterday, approached 3 girls there, 1 at the airport and went on a "date"/meetup with one that I knew through a mutual friend. I kissed one of the girls, and one of them on the cheek - both in the club. However, both ghosted me on IG after (I took until the morning to write them). --> Learning: message immediately (within 1 hour) after leaving her at the club --- Today, I complimented a girl on the street, approached 2 girls at a café, and with one of them we were actually talking about doing bourdoir photography - which we are both interested in. We then made plans to meet up in thr rvening, and i messaged her on IG "Amazing! So we're going on a date?" To show intent. Then she didnt respond for almost an hour, and has been responding slowly since. I also went out to the beach with my camera, asking random people to take their pictures. I got 6 girls ans 3 guys in front of the camera in total, but with those, I also didn't get anywhere from it, since I didn't manage to turn the conversation sexual. So I'm not really lacking the confidence, I feel I'm mostly lacking the strategy. Especially since most people wanna talk to me, but it's almost always only in a platonic way. --> Learning: Drop more bold lines, be more upfront with my intentions --> Excercise for myself tonight: Go to the club and be VERY obviously sexually. I will keep you updated on the results.