(Thursday 14/5) Day 107 - I took responsibility for everything in my life 🫨 my son messaged me in the morning. Then by the afternoon I caught him trying to break into my house when I arrived home to get ready for work. After getting home from work he was out on the front deck freezing. He had decided to come home. I welcomed him in, told him to go warm up in the shower and made him something to eat and drink. It was already almost 11pm and I was glad he was home so didn't want to get into the talk. He apologized for lying and stated that he now knew just how sweet he's got it. So I accepted his offer for us to start over. He already knows where I stand and there was no need to repeat anything I said the day before. So he went to bed and by the time I went to say goodnight, after washing up the dishes from cooking for him, he was asleep. I waited for his uniform to dry and then went to bed myself. I'm thankful for the support and help my son and I received from all who were involved in this situation. Cisca, Ange, Kyha, Carol, Helen, Chris and Mel. Praise the Lord for good people and good friends. For once I am not carrying anything on my own 🧺

(Friday 15/5) Day 108 - I took responsibility for everything in my life 🥊 feeling as though I am under severe spiritual attack and a real test of my character and patience all week. It started at the Kohanga with the manager making her snide comment and giving away my mother's Day card to my daughters father, then the next day my son and his disrespect and deciding not to come home, then that rolled into the next day where I caught him trying to break into my house with two of his friends, then coming home later to him wanting to return home, to yesterday getting a phone call from the school that my son was assaulted by another older kid at school.. I was disgusted with how the school handled it and didn't notify me right away and when I asked who had assaulted my son, was told "I'm not going to divulge that information". I can't believe that my son got hurt and the perpetrator was getting name suppression at the discretion of the teacher. I have a right to know what happened and how it happened and by whom so I can do what's within my power to protect my son. I took my son to the police station and then to the doctors as he was showing signs of a concussion. I need your help Lord, for justice. You know my heart and I ask that you sort it out properly. This week has been a rollercoaster ride that I have not particularly enjoyed but learned a lot from 🎢

@Phillip Turner digging deeper and rising stronger, friend 💪

@Phillip Turner 😎 and 7 levels up!!

@Ngozi Obanye

Task 1 - 3 Pillars: REAL EYES REALIZE REAL LIES.... What's the tea? Prob 1: Diagnose and Dispose - Identify the root of the issue and rid yourself of the lies. Prob 2: Real Eyes and Realise - See and position yourself strategically Prob 3: Heal and Hone - Do the inner work and upskill Issue 1 - Lack of Truth/Transparency: The court runs on presumption and assumption. You must stand on the TRUTH.... Issue 2 - Blindshotting/Railroading/Ignoring: Not knowing what to expect or what to do, at all. You must EXPECT the worst and plan for YOUR best. Hold yourself to the highest expectations and expect the other side to fight dirty. Fight back with everything you got. Issue 3 - The Children are the one's who suffer the most because of adult decisions: Hold yourself ACCOUNTABLE first, and then hold every individual who has anything to do with your case accountable too, using truth and law. This requires personal accountability on a whole other level. Method name: HOT CUPPA TEA - Hot cup of Truth, Expectations and Accountability. TIME FOR A TEA PARTY - Time for a Truth, Expectations and Accountability Party. Need to work on this more...... Task 2 - My numbers 35 years of life experience 14 years of parenthood (foundational experience in "coaching my own kids") lol 3 years of experience in the Family Court 10 years of experience in the Criminal Court Life coach and program - SHOUTOUT TO: (NIKKI JANE GLOVER, 12wks 2021) -$2222.22: 1on1x 12, access to the FB group, tasks, templates, healing, NLP and CBT, routine, proper accountability, support, direction, and so much more. We are still friends to this day, and she even wrote me a character reference for the same Family Court problems I'm still in, an absolute gem that woman. I have modelled my other coaching program similarly to what she taught me. I loved her simplicity and ability to draw out the results using such basic but effective steps. I didn't like that it ended. (RANIERA REWIRI, 4 wks 2023) -$20: 1on1 x1, access to FB group, zooms, NLP and CBT, some comfort knowing there were others in my same situation, accountability and community. We were colleagues years before he launched his course and offered it at a donation. I was just donating to what I thought was a good cause and didn't realise I had joined, so I engaged and loved it, then found out you could carry on for 8 more weeks if you paid the full price. I couldn't afford to do his set price and was grateful I got the 4 weeks I did for such a steal!

@Makayla Campbell

Day 7 of taking responsibility for everything in my life rolled straight into Day 8 of taking responsibility for everything in my life. It's 3am and I just finished practicing on subject number 4 💪 It's been a full on day, but not the draining type, the empowering type! I can't believe how fast the days are going and how quickly the universe is responding to everything I've done for the last week. I cannot wait to see the same results for the people I am helping.

I thought I posted day 9, but can't find it. Day 10 was taking responsibility and practicing the application of the tools we've learned (had me not just talking about it, but being about, so much so that i forgot to sound off 😅 I'm now coming into Day 11, taking responsibility for everything in my life 💪