What if you're just successfully running a struggle code? Here's what I mean. Things start going well — you're taking action, clients coming in, money moving, momentum building. Then something changes. New idea. Confidence drops. Money goes out. You stop doing what was working. Again. Most of us call that sabotage. It isn't. It's your code doing exactly what it was designed to do. Your code is the set of instructions running beneath your decisions—what you expect from money, what you believe is possible, and what you do automatically when success gets close. Most of it was written long before you were old enough to question it. And until you see it, you just live its output. Some codes read like this: ✕ Success requires struggle. ✕ Money requires sacrifice. ✕ Visibility creates risk. ✕ Good things don't last. Inside a code like that, your behavior makes sense. You're not failing at success — you're succeeding at the wrong code. On Tuesday, October 13 at 12:00 PM CT, I'm teaching the recode — live, in a free 90-minute workshop: RECODE YOUR MIND FOR SUCCESS You'll learn my VIBE Coding™ process: identify the code, adjust what no longer serves you, run it in real life, create evidence — then adjust and run again. This is working time, not a lecture. Bring ONE area where you keep running the same code: the calls, the pricing, the income level you reach and don't hold. 🗓 Tuesday, October 13 · 12:00–1:30 PM CT 📍 Live on Zoom — replay goes here in the Lab 🎟 Free — grab your seat: HERE Know someone who keeps "starting over"? Invite them. This pattern thrives in silence.

What if the next stage of your life requires a different identity? There is an old way of describing the stages of a woman’s life: Maiden. Mother. Crone. I understand the history behind the word “crone,” and in some traditions it represents wisdom. But let’s be honest. For a modern woman, “Congratulations, you’ve reached your Crone years” doesn’t exactly make you want to throw confetti. It sounds like the story is winding down. And I think for many women, the opposite is happening. You may be entering the part of your life when you have more experience, more perspective, more discernment, and far less interest in proving yourself. You’re not disappearing. You’re becoming the Matriarch. And that is a very different identity. Maiden. Mother. Matriarch. I don’t see these simply as stages determined by age or whether a woman has children. I see them as different positions from which we create. The Maiden is becoming. She explores, learns, tries things, seeks approval, takes risks, discovers who she is. The Mother creates, builds, protects, nurtures, carries responsibility, solves problems, and often holds far more together than anyone realizes. Then something begins to change. The strategies that served the Mother start becoming exhausting. She doesn’t necessarily need to work harder, care more, or carry more. She needs a different relationship with her own authority. That is where I see the Matriarch. The Matriarch still cares deeply. But she doesn’t have to carry everything. She guides. She decides. She allows other adults to carry their own responsibilities. She knows when to intervene and when to stay out of the way. She has earned wisdom through experience, but perhaps more importantly, she begins trusting herself enough to use it. That shift sounds wonderful. Living it can be another matter. “I need better boundaries.” A woman I worked with recently was experiencing this transition in her family. She had spent years occupying the familiar role of the family mom. She helped. She worried. She stepped in. She carried things.

Today gave me a chance to practice exactly what I've been writing about. I woke up knowing what I needed to do. And then life happened. There was pressure and upset in my house. I got the kid to school. Cleaned the house. Went to the grocery store. Handled things that needed handling. And several things happened that could easily have become perfectly legitimate reasons to abandon what I had committed to doing for myself today. But I kept coming back to one thought: “This is still what I chose.” Maybe I'll only get 15 minutes at a time. That's okay. Because I realized there is a third piece: Capability asks: Can I do it? Capacity asks: Can I hold what doing it requires within the reality of my life? Commitment asks: When life pulls me away, will I return? I used to think commitment meant staying relentlessly focused. Now I'm questioning that. Maybe commitment is the return. Getting interrupted isn't failure. Feeling overwhelmed isn't failure. Having other responsibilities isn't failure. The critical moment is what happens next. Do I use what happened as a reason to abandon what I chose? Or do I return? Today, I'm returning. Maybe only 15 minutes at a time. But every time I do, I'm creating evidence that my commitments to myself matter. Capability. Capacity. Commitment. I think I'm going to be exploring these three for a while. I witness your mastery.

I AM Lab Sessions Twice each month, we’ll come together live to explore a different challenge, question, or opportunity and turn insight into practical solutions. Each session will focus on something relevant to creating meaningful change, from navigating resistance and making better decisions to building confidence, changing patterns, taking action, and creating measurable results. Bring your questions, challenges, and something you’re working on. Sessions may include teaching, coaching, discussion, practical tools, and real-life application. Come ready to explore, experiment, and leave with a clearer next step. I AM Lab Sessions: Where insight becomes action and action becomes evidence. 1st and 3rd Tuesday each month. Register through the Skool Calendar. Note: Due to Zoom platform limitations, there are two separate meeting links; register for both sessions.

Activate Your Wealth Identity April 7 at Noon Central I AM Decision: End Hesitation and Move Forward There is something you already know you need to decide. And you haven’t. Not because you don’t know what to do. Because you keep waiting to feel ready. So you think about it again. You weigh your options. You tell yourself you need more clarity. And nothing moves. Each time you delay, confidence drops. Momentum stalls. You start seeing yourself as someone who hesitates. This is where identity gets shaped. Not in big moments. In the decisions you avoid. In this session, we shift that. Decision is not about having all the answers. It is about trusting yourself enough to move. Inside the class, you will: • See where hesitation is keeping you stuck • Make one clear decision you have been avoiding • Take the next step that follows it • Anchor the shift using The One Command This is not about pressure. It is about self-trust. Because the moment you decide, everything changes. Join us live. April 7 at Noon Central Register here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/rmnKb8JDRESuMGwtsl5HSg Come with one decision. Leave with movement.