My old pattern is multifaceted but I definitely believed I had to earn my parents love through performance in competition and school. I also thought I had to control every aspect of my life to feel safe. Thinking if I don't do everything then I'll be nothing. Not allowing myself to relax, feeling guilty for it. I guess the biggest thing was when things start getting really good some part of me believes that I'm not good enough to have that and tries to create some new struggle to keep me from having it. I took the Aaron AI quiz before, a few weeks ago, and, yeah, I definitely said that my biggest problem was receiving help and love from others and feeling that if I did that it was some sort of devaluation of myself or something because I guess I felt I had to earn that love, and if I didn't earn it, then I shouldn't be receiving anything from someone else. Probably why I also pushed away women in the past. I just didn't want them to get to know me well enough because I was afraid that if I fully opened up they might not accept me for who I am and reject me.

The 4 day challenge starts tomorrow! Are you excited? Over the next 4 days you will shift into a new you No pressure… lol The most important thing I recommend is to COMMIT to the process I’ve run many of these and noticed that its always those that COMMIT to showing up that get the biggest results and create that shift Are you committed? If so can you comment on this post here and say “I’M committed to the SHIFT!” Use this as your pledge to show up live and to show up and do the work And if you haven't signed up yet, you can do it here: https://themagneticchallenge.com/ Also I have an announcement on a free tool you can use to go DEEPER than you thought possible… For you to get the MOST out of this experience there are a few tools I have for you to experience for free as a part of this challenge… The first is something called Aaron AI… It’s like getting personalized coaching 1 one 1 with me This is a version of my content, system, knowledge and even voice… that can help you understand and breakthrough your patterns Every live event, live coaching call, YouTube video and workshop have been programmed into it to help you shift your identity and patterns My shift process is programmed into it too AND my voice is even in it which allows you to be coached 24/7 in the same way I could do in person Now of course… healing happens in the presence of an empathic witness… and we will be doing live calls/meditations/etc during the 4 days With that said I am always blown away by how many people have breakthroughs using Aaron AI… Here is a prompt you can use to experience it now Login here using your email… (you create a free account) https://www.innersights.io/aaron/delphi And then you can ask any question, explain a situation from your life to understand the shadow or beliefs underneath the pattern etc OR you put in this prompt… Here is a reoccurring pattern that keeps coming up in my life…

What stood out today was the realization of the "snapback effect": unresolved trauma and unprocessed emotional energy naturally pull you back toward old patterns until they are truly integrated. The path forward isn't to fight, suppress, or outrun those parts of yourself, but to acknowledge, feel, and accept them so the trapped energy can finally resolve. From that place, you can begin expressing yourself and taking actions that stretch beyond your old identity. Those experiences remain part of your story, but they no longer define who you are. Each new aligned action becomes evidence that you're no longer living from the past, but consciously expanding into the person you're choosing to become. Today's aligned actions reflected the person I'm becoming rather than the person I've been. I posted another video sharing a reflection on life to one of my new Instagram pages, and I also shared a message encouraging people to get out into nature on my personal Instagram—something I rarely would have done in the past. The biggest shift, though, wasn't just in what I posted—it was in how I chose to live today. Rather than withholding my happiness until everything felt perfect or matched my expectations, I allowed myself to be present and appreciate the moment as it was. That, too, is an identity stretch. It's another step away from living in fear, control, and waiting for certainty, and another step toward living with openness, authenticity, and trust. Plus, I felt this picture was appropriate.

My biggest insight was that I have a big problem receiving. I like to give but when it comes to receiving I almost feel like I had to earn it somehow because when I was young I thought I had to earn my parents love. Even lately when good things came my way I would allow it for a bit and then push it away thinking I'm not worthy of it. I also need to continue to allow life in while not gripping hard trying to control every outcome. When I truly let go not only does life open up, but my body as well.

hey everyone! today’s call was amazing and the replay is HERE, just use this link: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/5bac406c?md=0b941d848b7f43b9a3f71ddfcce270e5 we went deeper and looked at the subconscious stories, beliefs, and patterns that our identity has been running on autopilot we understand our patterns intellectually, and we try change to change them but the pattern that got you in isn't the pattern that gets you out the key is to embrace the pattern, let it be and accept it. that’s how your identity begins to SHIFT…by choosing YOU. HW for Day 1: ⭐ what’s your BIGGEST insight from today’s call? ⭐ do your innersight Identity Shift Worksheet to here to SHIFT your pattern, get it here (its free): https://innersights.io/aaron/assessments/the-identity-shift-challenge -Complete the Identity Shift Worksheet, there are 6 questions and it will take about 10–20 minutes to fill out -Use the microphone instead of typing if possible, and answer the follow-up questions honestly and in detail -Read your personalized report and identify your biggest insight, core pattern, or identity -Copy and paste your report into Aaron AI (optional but recommended) and ask follow-up questions to go deeper. You will see Aaron AI under the "chat" section once you've done the report inside that platform ⭐ what did you learn from the worksheet and from Aaron AI? ⭐ what patterns did you discover from doing the personalized worksheet? ⭐ And add a photo of you from your childhood to represent your inner child when you share your HW post! share in the comments below or make a post here in the group use #day1HW.