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Day 2 Done!
The mask I've been wearing most: Perfectionist, People Pleaser, Fixer/Caretaker, invisible How exhausting it's been: Extremely exhausting and tiring. No wonder I feel tired all the time. What I loved as a kid (before the masks): Reading, Listening to music, singing, dancing. Friction Audit complete, this are the exact steps i have to take: 1. Get out the folder containing Shareview signup 2. Find the details 3. Put folder on desk open at the details page 4. Open website 5. Attempt sign in 6. If this fails follow the steps advised on webpage to retrieve/resolve the problem.
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@Judy Hamilton absolutely, explains why I have never gathered all my different social circles together. They all bring out different things in me and I mask differently with each group. I am always truthful, kind & supportive but I just feel like a chameleon. I'm by no means a fraud just mask parts of me that I believe they wouldn't accept.
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@Bobbie Eden I have been know to do it as an adult too just not as often.๐Ÿคฃ ๐ŸŽผ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽค๐Ÿ’ƒ
Awakening Assessment
Just started the ADHD Awakening Assessment and realized my "I can't finish things" problem isn't about discipline at all. I stop when something gets hard because my brain reads the setback as proof there's something wrong with me. Same exact question shows up in my relationships. Didn't expect to see that connection so fast.
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@Judy Hamilton absolutely. Late 2024/early 2025 I thought I had the perfect system, I had a routine I worked hard on fitness and healthy eating got my weight down and lowered my cholesterol in the process. A holiday followed by an emotional blip and it all went out the window and didn't return. I started to return in the Autumn of 2025 only to fall off again after a calf injury in February this year. I'm getting back on it though a step at a time. Just trying each day to make progress.
Impulse control questions
One of the traits of ADHD is impulse control. I was wondering if anyone else here is dealing with that trait and how you are working with that trait are you using medicine? Are you doing some type of meditation or I donโ€™t know Iโ€™m just curious just to see how others are dealing with it. Kind of sucks that you donโ€™t have that hedge so to speak that protects you from your action. You just jump in without thinking, and the consequences with it, and I was just curious how many others felt the same way, and how they work with/through it. .
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@Shawn Bailey Bed time procrastination is one of my big issues. I have a rule if I am not in bed by 3am then I am not going to bed. Bad I know!! The older I get the harder it is becoming I was doing so well with my now screens from 10pm read & a brief journal. Lights out at 11pm. this is great when I stick to it consistently but the moment I have a social event all of that goes out the window and it's hard to get back into. I have every intention to go back but it takes a long while.
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@Shawn Bailey hey watch the negative self-talk ๐Ÿ˜‰ You probably got into a hyperfocus session where stopping felt wrong. You are right at least it was something productive and today is a new day to return and try again at the screen time curfew. The phrase I learned a couple of years ago is be kind to yourself. If you don't manage the task/routine today tomorrow is a new day. That once isn't an issue it's when it stops completely and spirals. I woke up on time today so my day is going well. ๐Ÿ™‚
Day 1 Done
Day 1 Done! Biggest insight: My "I can't seem to finish things" problem isn't about discipline at all. I stop when something gets hard because my brain reads the setback as proof there's something wrong with me. Same exact question shows up in my relationships. Didn't expect to see that connection so fast. My open loop is: Sorting out access to my sharepoint portal. Again it got too difficult when I tried the other day so stuck it on my to do list as a reminder but at the moment it seems to be my to do list of doom. One word for how I feel right now: Emotional
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@Bobbie Eden Thanks Bobbie I sometimes fail to start due to the graveyard of unfinished things. The most frustrating part is I stop usually at the pivotal moment, usually when other get involved,
Reaching too high? or fear of failure?
Just got to the part where I had to write down the voice in my head, and I realized the thing it tells me - that I'm "reaching too high" - is the exact opposite of my actual track record. I once finished a walking marathon when only two of four people made it. Turns out I don't have a follow-through problem. I have a story problem.
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Lisa Yeates
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Looking to swap selling my time to businesses for multiple income streams to create financial freedom, whilst navigating a recent ADHD diagnosis.

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Joined Jun 7, 2026
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