Forgiveness has a terrible reputation. Most people hear the word and assume it means excusing, or worse condoning, what happened. Letting someone off. Pretending it didn't cost you. So they refuse — reasonably — and then carry the thing for another decade. Florence Scovel Shinn framed it completely differently in Chapter 5 of The Game of Life and How to Play It. She treats forgiveness as a neutralizing act. She doesn’t say it’s your moral obligation or a generous thing to do. 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹. In her framework, 𝘂𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 = 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻. It clogs the channel, and everything downstream of it moves slowly. Health, money, opportunity, peace. 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻. 𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿. That reframes the whole question. It stops being 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘰 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘱𝘢𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴. 𝗔 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲, 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸: Notice where your attention goes when it's got nowhere else to be. Where does your mind wander on your drive home, in the shower, or that moment before sleep. Whoever shows up there uninvited — that's the one still taking up space inside you. You don't have to feel kindly toward them. You just have to stop holding on. Catch it. Name it. Release them to their own good, and take your attention back. That's it. That's the whole practice, and it works on the fifteenth repetition better than the first. I published the 100th Anniversary Edition of Florence's book, and I run a community called Living the Game of Life where we read it slowly and put it to work — with companion guides, group discussion, and people who are moving through similar things. We also open 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 twice a year for a guided journey through the full book. Come sit with us.

Oh my goodness! I've been watching this group and waiting because I'm busy with other things but... The Claude Code Club ANNUAL membership is $59 for 20 more hours! That's just $5/month... You just can't beat that! The stuff I've been doing with my incredibly rudimentary knowledge of Claude lately is totally blowing me away, so I'm ready for the next step. Who wants to join me? JOIN HERE!

This is a totally valid question, especially in a world where there's "new" everything all the time at a pace you could never keep up with... plus all the trends... Yet, I keep going back to 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦, 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘯 1925. Actually, that's probably why. It's not trendy, it's just 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲. In The Game of Life and How to Play It, Florence Scovel Shinn was writing about spiritual laws, ideas that hold strong regardless of "what's trending." And when you hear what she teaches, you'll probably think, "but that's so simple, I already knew that." And you probably do. 𝗕𝘂𝘁, 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘁? Do you actually do what you know? I found myself needing to "dip in" to this book again and again as a reminder of the simple things I already know, so that I could truly incorporate these principles into my daily life. That's why we run 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 in the Living the Game of Life community, to remind ourselves of these spiritual laws and to keep practicing them even when life gets messy. We're reading together right now! Want to join us?

what are you doing this weekend and do YOU have any hobbies?! I feel like hobbies are becoming a thing of the past😭

Sometimes something did not work because it was wrong. Sometimes it did not work because it was unfinished. 👉Tip: Before you quit, ask: “Is this a dead end, or does it need adjusting?”💙