@Adam Sko I could see how the last spiritual meet up was powerful for you. I could see that it moved you at a certain point. I’m excited to learn how you integrated what was discussed. There is a paradoxical portal that is awaiting you.

@Adam Sko woooooow, Adam! The self awareness you are cultivating is absolutely beautiful. I live this relationship you have with the observer of your own suffering and the ability to move towards it and through it. I can see that you are recognizing that we attract people into our lives who will affirm the ways in which we view ourselves and the world when we move from a wounded ego. We are not victims, we are the creators of these experiences. As we remember who we are and the illusion of separation diminishes, an ease moves over us, like a soft gentle warm summer breeze. We no longer move from a place of anxiousness, pain and suffering. We are found, or at least that’s how we register it but we are actually remembered. The truth is, we were never separate to begin with. Only, we operated from the illusion that we were so we seek out being witnessed, seen, accepted and remembered by and from those who haven’t the capacity to do this for us because they to are moving from this wound. Only we can do this for ourselves when we practice and remember oneness.

@Adam Sko conscious and spiritual relationships are not spaces where we override or dismiss our own experiences. They are not containers for questioning our inner knowing in the name of growth. If anything, they ask us to become even more honest with ourselves. Before we can meet someone in that kind of depth, there is an inward threshold we have to cross. We have to be willing to see the wounds we are moving through the world from. And if those wounds are shaping our discernment, then that is the work. Not the relationship. A conscious relationship asks for two people who are willing to show up in awareness. It asks for self-reflection, for honesty, for the ability to be vulnerable and to take responsibility for what is ours. It requires a partner who can recognize their patterns, speak to them, and stay present with them. When someone is deeply identified with ego patterns, especially those that lean into control, avoidance, or lack of accountability, there is a limit to how deeply they can meet us. Not because they are bad, but because they are not yet available for that level of connection. The ego has a role in helping us navigate this human experience, but when it becomes the only lens, it keeps everything at the surface. And depth needs safety. Safety and self-awareness are the foundation of any conscious connection. Without them, we find ourselves repeating patterns rather than growing beyond them. If we notice that we are drawn to people who are not safe or not self-aware, it is an invitation inward, not a judgment. Somewhere along the way, parts of us learned to normalize those dynamics. And as we sit with that, as we begin to understand it and move through it, something starts to shift. We begin to relate to ourselves differently. We anchor into a deeper sense of self-love and self-respect. And that is not just a feeling, it is something we live through our internal systems. Through our values, our standards, our boundaries, our integrity, and our ethics. When we truly know these, they guide us. They keep us aligned with what is true for us.

@Adam Sko I’m looking forward to answering any questions tomorrow. Your questions will support others who may also share them.