How often in conversation with someone can you feel yourself steering them in any direction? Wanting them to see their power, wanting them to like you, wanting them to be positive, etc? Isn’t it interesting how that energy has the opposite effect? The more you want them to be positive, the more they go into their problems… The more you want them to like you, the more you can feel yourself repelling them… The more you want them to see their power, the more they go into victim mode and don’t… Here is something I’ve learned from 9 years of coaching 1,000’s of people And you can apply this in your life with friends, co-workers, etc I’ve learned that for the coaching to be powerful… I have to have NO AGENDA and be willing to go into the unknown My job is to be present and to connect to the part of themselves that have the answers inside of them I ran a live call on Monday in my 21 day challenge and while on it I could feel how the more present I am, the more the people become as a reflection In that present energy people feel safe and connect to themselves where all the answers are A few years ago I would have an agenda to “get people into their power” “see their patterns and let them go” “heal their shadows” etc That energy infuses the belief that they aren’t whole the way they are and don’t have the power inside of themselves and need ME People are either opening their hearts/energy or are in protection and closed/contracted When YOU open, you allow others to open through state transference It reminds me of when people talk about how how enlightened people would not see people as “sick” and in their presence they would be healed Today's message of the day is to practice being present by accepting the moment as it is, and trusting that the people around you have the answers inside them That belief will hold a frame for them that will allow them to tap into their own power And in that energy you won’t take on responsibility for their energy too Let me know in the comments below:

These past few days I have felt so much release of tension, emotions that have been hiding. like hurt and the feeling of being too much. I know in my attachment pattern I used to be anxious and would attract men who were more outwardly controlling. I would shrink back and give myself up. The biggest thing for my life lesson was learning to have my expression of words. I know that I am free in my body and between my breath work and today's lesson .. I saw my sweet inner child, hands wide open stretched out and dancing with so much gratefulness ... wild flowers and beauty all around. What a wonderful sensation in my body.. to know I am free to be me.

what an amazing call! Day 7 replay is UP! you can find the replay in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day 7: Healing Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles ” or use this link to go right to it: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=f46bc01564f04b76a52d7f08a6c463a2 today was about connecting to your own inner child dynamics between mom and dad, and beginning to learn how those reflect in different areas of your life often people focus on what they want…but what do you get to subtract from your life? what attachments have you been holding onto that have been keeping familiar type energies in your life? when you become aware of that attachment and you learn to let it go, that’s when you become free there’s a part of our own inner child, that wants to feel seen, heard, soothed, and nurtured many times, we will try to change the inner child… we’ll feel ashamed of it we don’t want it to feel what it’s feeling and the key to merging into more security inside of yourself is learning to have a more secure relationship with your emotions it’s having a more secure relationship with what you’re avoiding feeling. Feeling the fear, feeling the emotion, and expressing yourself allows the energy to release! Day 7 HW: 🧡what’s your BIGGEST insight from connecting to your inner child during the mediation from today’s call? 🧡what emotion came up? 🧡how can you begin to connect to your inner child more? 🧡begin to allow yourself to feel. connect to that child every single day, even for just 5 or 10 minutes a day share your insights in the comments below or make a post about it here! BTW, if you want to do more themed challenges on a monthly basis, learn to let go of your childhood patterns and become the MOST magnetic YOU…the SHIFT Academy is now OPEN! https://www.skool.com/highvibeschool/about

Day 3 is about the Beliefs About Love and Removing Subconscious Love Blocks in this video, I focus on taking you through understanding and reframing your limiting beliefs on your love blocks you will find the video in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day 3 and access it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=5f4c74ee72064ea88400f3535489db76 HW for Day 3: ❣️fill out the worksheet in this lesson on: Reframing The Story. this sheet is under day 3 video. please save the pdf sheet to your device first, before filling in your answers ❣️visualize and embody the new belief ❣️screenshot the worksheet and post it in the High Vibe Tribe group using #day3 (you can also just post your insights if you'd prefer) ❣️do the daily meditation on attracting love found in the “start here” section ❣️optional: use Aaron AI as a tool if you want to go deeper

Day 1 replay is UP! you can find the replay in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day 1: welcome + Magnetic LOVE process” or use this link to go right to it: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=a4dbcdb46b484b8781fb103e0c5a933e today's live call was awesome! I talked about a process of Magnetic Love and over these 21 days, we’ll go to go deep into the inner child dynamics that shape how we show up in love and the stories you have about love and here’s the interesting thing… the inner critic, the people pleaser, the overgiver, the part of you that’s afraid to be seen what do we usually do with those parts? we try to push them away but what if those parts have been trying to protect you this whole time? that’s where we’ll begin…we’ll get curious about what the pattern has been protecting us from, feel what’s underneath it, and start to let go of the energy that keeps it going what would it look like to choose yourself a little more over these next 21 days? to stop walking on eggshells, open your heart a little more, and let people see more of who you are I’m excited to see what opens up for everyone during this challenge! HW for today: 💜what’s your BIGGEST insight from today’s call and the challenge so far? 💜do the attract love meditation and share about your experience of connecting to your heart while doing this meditation 💜fill out the Calibrate Your Love Frequency pdf sheet, I’ve attached it here. make sure that you download it first to your device to fill it, you can type right into the sheet. take a screen shot of your completed sheet and share it here in your HW post or in the comments below! if you are having difficulty with getting access to the course area, reach out to our team at [email protected]