I am glad to be here and learn more as a navigate a very loving relationship with my fiancee (together 7+ years, engaged since Nov 2022 and friends 35+ years) that has hit a very rough patch that has her considering separation. It largely lands with me and my inaction with my 18 year old son (family integration, motivation, direction, etc. has been an issue 2 years) as well as an accidental incident where I bit her finger while asleep and I have no memory of it. Both of these have opened wide past traumas from her past she is unsure she can work though. We have a new therapist (LMFT) and in-person (vs telehealth like we did last year) and had our first session yesterday.