@Josue Feliciano I cannot stand it when men are too full of themselves or too insecure. When men are insecure, it definitely shows in how they act and speak about themselves. Self deprecating humor is funny at first, but it gets old and annoying very quickly. Another way to not get a second date is if the guy didn’t plan anything for the first one. If you ask a girl out, you need to have a plan. Don’t wait until the date and be like “So…what do you want to do?” ALSO, inviting a girl over to your home to “chill” is not a date. Every time I’ve heard that, my mind went to hooking up, and that’s not what I was interested in. I have turned down men who don’t present themselves well. Everyone has lazy days, but if you have bad hygiene and generally don’t care about your appearance, why would women be interested? Openers are big too. You don’t want to come off as creepy when you talk to women. Each woman has their own definition of it, but generally men are categorized as that if they start off too strong or are disrespectful. Give her the opportunity to see if the vibe is there before asking her out.

I managed to get a walk in before it rained or got dark 🤗

I’m definitely an imploder. In arguments I’ve been known to bring up “old stuff” because I never expressed that it bothered me before.

@Josue Feliciano I won’t spoil it for anyone who hasn’t watched the video yet, but I agree! I have found that doing that tactic helps immensely when trying to figure out what I’m angry about.

I love that picture too! It makes me laugh when I see it 😄