I'm so confused! My husband passed away back in late June, been married since 2002 was denied death benefits flat out,ok fine with that. Did my phone appointment for survivor benefits, sent in marriage license was denied because they said never received nevertheless I am hand delivering it Monday morning and said she would reopen my case. So I just turned 62 in September and over the phone was told I would only get a few $$ . Ok a friend told me I could get the spouse benefits but also get SSI through the state because I am below the poverty level 🫤. We have one grown child not disabled.I don't know what to do just trying to get on my feet after losing 40 loved ones in a short amount of time. Any advice would be great.