I’m one of 5, the only girl, and the caregiving is falling to me. I’m good with it most of the time and at least two of my brothers will help if I ask. But two of them are clueless. Just have no idea or care about what it really takes or what has to be done. It’s maddening sometimes and they just live in their own little bubbles. No care for anyone but themselves and even when you mention they act as if I’m just whining.