In the Month of April... these 3 things... (on being present)
One of the greatest things this last month has been my shift from "fight or flight" to "being present." Here's the TLDR version. - I'm a father of 7 "wow" children. (22 yrs old to 10 yrs old, 5 boys, 2 girls). - Husband to a tremendous wife, not needy, just human, and who wants my attention and deserves the very best husbandly love. - Run my own business (small to medium sized business problem solving through tech and artificial intelligence systems) - And genuinly want to be the best for others. - ...and to learn and do God's will. So, as you can imagine, life gets demanding. These three things I learned in the last 30 days and have practices: 1. Most of the time, nothing, and I mean, nothing is on fire enough to worry about, truly. I know, I know... bills might be late, you didn't get done what you said you would, or maybe, you're not living the life you want to live right now. Well, usually, nothing is on fire, which means, it's all in our mind (which is reflected in our bodies) and can be quieted, thus, we are at peace with the current moment reality. 2. We are here to learn and grow. That's it. To find joy. To serve God. To create pathways for success for our children. And, to prepare for the next life. Yes, it would be nice if our businesses and side hustles were thriving. Yes, it would be nice if we could achieve our dreams (which I believe we really can.) But, the baseline, the least we are to worry about is, just continuing to move forward each day and do our very best. Just try again better tomorrow. 3. "It will come." I've learned to be patient too, in this short 30 day window. As, I've prayed and gotten answers, truly, but later than wanted. So, the lesson here is, to keep praying and doing, and pushing through the trail of faith because, you better believe it, seeds will sprout and bear fruit, prayers will be answered, and our efforts will drive results... but the timing just isn't up to us. —Josh