a few possabilities ... they are into fads and started a spiritual journey for that reason ... they are unable unwilling to think for them selves and need guidance from others instead of just looking around and seeing every thing for what it is, which means they will not find guidance that way ... they got egos so badly that they need to feel good about them selves and sorry that is NO WAY to heal. I mean that is like telling a lung cancer patient to treat them selves by smoking ... any ways one of the BEST things is if you don't feeling good yet IT DOES NOT AFFECT YOU then THAT is a steps in the right direction.