Ramadan Mubarak ❤️ 🎈 🥳 🥰

Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmetullah wa barakatu Fatim, nice to meet you. May Allah make you successful in this life and the hereafter, Ameen 🤲 ✨

@Layan B it must be very difficult, may Allah protect you and make it easier, Ameen. It's difficult to have different values while everyone think you're right. Yesterday did I take my daughter to the first ever class in the Mousqe for her, and while there was some free mixing there did I never feel comfortable enough to take off my niqab, some women / teachers of some of the different classes there came to me and started asking about why I am muslim. And in the end of the discussion did they tell me to take off my niqab (not only that evening but like forever). It's not the first time Muslims come to me and tells me to stop doing a certain kind of worship, sometimes if I do voluntary fasting, my modest clothing and even giving the poor people a small amount of money ( amongst other things, but these are the most common things Muslims tells me to stop doing). And every time does it really breaks my heart, and while I love them for the sake of Allah, they are my sister's in islam do I feel I bit of relief that they're strangers still. Because not sharing the same values really makes one feel that I am not included and not welcomed. May Allah forgive me for my weaknesses and this way of expressing myself, thinking and feeling. What I wanted to say about this that I can't imagine the hardship to experience this in the daily life with a close family member that is a member of the muslim ummah. You are so strong and Allah loves you so much. He made you a strong believer with a solid faith because he wants to see you in Jennah. The test is surely something challenging. I love to think about prophet Josef when I experience situations like this. He was being of he same ummah as his brothers, still they put him through the worst hardships. Subhanallah May Allah make it easier for you and higher your rank in jennah and guide everyone around you on the straight path, Ameen 🤲 🩷 ✨

@Habibatul Aulia oh subhanallah!😍 I love it, Jazakallahu khayran 🤲 Ameen ✨. May Allah reward you with the best rewards of this life and the hereafter, Ameen. Didn't know it existed, thanks alot ✨✨😍

Ya Allah, give me a husband that is beloved to you. Someone that is consistent on his rememberence on You (Allah), in private and in the open. That act upon Islam from his heart, speech and actions. That will love me for the sake of you (Allah). Oh Allah the greatest love we (people) have is the love we got for you and dedicate for your cause.

@Habibatul Aulia oh my sister, jazakallahu khayran 🤲 ✨ Ameen wa iyaki. May Allah give you the best life of this dounya and akhira Ameen 🤲 🩷

@Mubeena Banu I understand you, and i totally agree, it is so difficult to take rational decisions and act accordingly when one is attatched already. Ofcourse you want to tell him if you already have those types of feelings and i understand that you're not ready to give up on him already. I can't tell you what to do, but I can only tell you what i think would work best for me and my akhira. May Allah protect both you and me from the whispers of shaitan, ameen. But personally do i think that 2 years is a very long period of time to stay connected to a non-mahram for an "we'll maybe get married" kind of situation. But hey, that's just me, i don't even have a wali yet and therefore isn't even activly searching for a husband yet, mashallah tabarak Allah you're so many steps ahead of me. I will tell you the only senario that i can think of right now where i would be ready to wait for 2 years: first and foremost if me and the potential husband would never have any direct contact. Everyhting would need to go through a third part. My wali or perhaps a female family member of his. Then would i need to not have any unnecessary contact, no chit-chatting, no flirting, no going back and forward about things. I would need to know if the wait is simply because "he is not ready yet", "or the timing isn't just right" or if there is a practical actual reason. Because why would i've gotten in contact with (through a third party) in the first place if he isn't ready anyways for marriage? Then what was the point of invest time, efforts and attatchments if it was just to say that he will keep me on hold? Then my wiswas would go like "is he keeping me on hold because he want to see if there are better fishes out there on the ocean, because after all he was having his fishing rod wanting to get a bite". I wish you the best success and happiness, may Allah grant it to you, ameen. Again, I am no expert, this is just my take on it. A divorced single-mother who just as you are totally wanna learn from @Mindful Muslimah, may Allah be pleased with her, ameen. Maybe i am totally wrong, this is just my interpretation.

@Sherifatu Ayuba oh subhanallah you totally flatter me. May Allah make me better than what you think of me, Ameen. Anything good that I've said is from the will of Allah and any mistakes that I've might say is from my own weaknesses, errors and misleading from the Shaitan. May Allah protect us all Ameen. Your words are very generous, may Allah reward you generously Ameen 🤲 🩷