@Mel Gram seeeeee i listen!!!!!! *sometimes*

@Caba Misinski Listen to me closely, Csaba. First off, stop apologizing for "letting your feelings spread." You’re drowning and you’re asking for a life raft. Never apologize for trying to survive. You know what you get when you don't ask? Nothing. So I’m glad you’re here. Now, let’s get real. I agree with you: Right now, ADHD isn’t a superpower. It feels like a curse. When you’re $10,000 in the hole and frozen on the couch, hearing someone call it a "gift" makes you want to punch them in the face. You are allowed to be pissed off about that. But here is where you are screwing up. You are trying to look at the Whole F*cking Picture. You are staring at the debt. You are staring at the "wasted years." You are staring at the giant, expensive course you bought. You cannot do that with ADHD. When a neurotypical brain looks at a big project, they see a challenge. When an ADHD brain looks at a big project? We see a Threat. Your brain sees "Finish that $10,000 Program" as a giant, terrifying monster. It gets overwhelmed by the sheer size of the shit-pile, so it pulls the emergency brake. That’s why you freeze. That’s why you doom-scroll. That is a defense mechanism, not laziness. The Fix: Put on the blinders. You need to stop looking at the mountain and start looking at your damn feet. If you do what you've always done, you're gonna get what you always got. And right now, what you've got is paralysis. So we flip the script. In this community, we have a rule: The Intern doesn't worry about the Year; he worries about the next 10 minutes. - You cannot "fix your life" today. That’s too big. - You cannot "finish the course" today. That’s too big. - You cannot "make the $10k back" today. That’s too big. But you can do ONE micro-step. You can open the laptop. You can watch a 5-minute video. You can wash one dirty dish. The magic of breaking it down is that the moment you stop looking at the "Whole Job" and just look at "Step 1," the paralysis demon dies. You don't need to finish the race right now. You just need to tie your f*cking shoes.

@Genn Hathaway Genn! You are a mind reader. 👵✨ Bear with us for a second—we are actually in the middle of a massive 'renovation' of the categories right now! We’re redesigning the whole house to make it easier for everyone to follow along. 🛠️ ​For that specific meme (which is a mood, by the way), you can drop it in General Chat for now! Once the new rooms are ready, we’ll have a dedicated #squirrel-moments or The Living Room just for things that make us laugh. Stay tuned! 🛋️