“What if I fail?” The question that hinders development
It's a powerful question that will lead to a life-changing answer. I have dealt with this before and the thing I hold onto is "what will I learn?" The mental framework of failure requires a commitment to the belief that you won't get that chance again. I believe this to be false. As long as we draw breath there's a chance to try again. It may not always be the same circumstances but the ability remains. When you view it as an opportunity to learn something new, the possibilities are almost endless. You don't truly learn in winning. You learn what you did THIS time worked. Failing teaches you so much more. l've fallen in love with failure because of this. It's tough sometimes, but regret is worse than not trying. I’m building a step by step self-help system for professionals with mild to moderate public speaking anxiety who want to calm their body, clear their mind, and speak clearly in their next important speaking moment. If this is you or you know someone who could use practical help, comment and stay tuned! Hope this helps!