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58 contributions to Strength Purpose Legacy
Are you willing to live for them?
Most men say, “I’d die for my family.” But here’s the question I asked myself this morning: Would you be willing to live for them? Most men are already willing to work hard and provide. That’s usually not the problem. The real question is what happens when you get home. Are you truly present? Or are you just physically there while the TV, your phone, or distractions get the best of your attention? Are you the man who gets down on the floor and plays with his kids? Who throws a Frisbee in the backyard, makes paper airplanes, goes on adventures, and creates memories? Because your kids don’t really care what you do for a living. What they’ll remember is how you made them feel. Providing for your family matters. But your presence matters even more. Most men are willing to die for their families. The better question is this: Are you willing to live for them? 👇 What does being present with your family look like for you?
Are you willing to live for them?
1 like • 15d
Great question and one that a lot of dads would struggle to answer, I certainly did for a long time as like you put it we have been conditioned in reality to just keep going and focus on work. When in reality, we need to look at what we want from home, why we want it and how to put it into practice. This took me a long time to realise and actually implement into day to day, and as with a lot of us it will be it is a working progress. Through seeing exactly what I want and who I am willing to live for, I have been able to see so much about myself, understand what purpose is important to me and change my outlook on so many aspects of my life, which has let me help other dads see the same and live more content and purposeful lives
The greatest legacy we leave isn’t what we build… it’s who we influence.
Last night, my grandson decided to wear Grandpa’s Rebel Wealth hat. Seeing those little eyes under that hat reminded me of something: Strength.Purpose.Legacy. They’re not just words. They’re things we pass on. Not through perfection.Not through money.Not through titles. But through our example. The men we become today shape the generations that follow. That’s why I believe the greatest investment we will ever make isn’t in stocks, real estate, or businesses. It’s in people. And especially in the little people watching us. Strength • Purpose • Legacy 👇 What legacy are you intentionally building right now?
The greatest legacy we leave isn’t what we build… it’s who we influence.
1 like • 16d
yes totally agree, its how we move that from those we influence to how we influence more people
Show Up Anyway
Confession: I didn’t sleep well last night. I woke up this morning tired and honestly feeling a little blank. No big inspiration. No flood of ideas. Just one of those mornings. But I’ve learned something over the years: You don’t have to feel motivated to do what matters. You just have to show up. Too many men think something is wrong with them because they don’t feel “on fire” every day. Nothing is wrong with you. Some days are about passion. Some days are about discipline. And discipline will carry you farther than motivation ever will. Your family doesn’t need a perfect man. They need a present man. Show up. Keep moving. Don’t quit. Strength • Purpose • Legacy 👇 Have you ever had to show up on a day when you simply didn’t feel like it?
Show Up Anyway
1 like • 22d
Love this post, it's one thing I've been working on so much over the past few months as previously I would have given up for the day. Where now I'm really of the opinion to just keep at it You should put this in honest man. I think it would resonate with so many
3:30 AM
It’s 3:30 in the morning. Yesterday was a rough day. I put in nearly 20 hours, got a few hours of sleep, and now I’m back at it again. Not because someone is forcing me. Not because it’s easy. Because I believe in the mission. Melinda and I are building Rebel Wealth to help men become better husbands, fathers, grandfathers, and leaders. We’re building something that helps men stop surviving and start living with Strength, Purpose, and Legacy. The truth is, missions that matter aren’t built by accident. They’re built in the early mornings when nobody is watching. They’re built in the late nights when you’re tired and wondering if it’s worth it. They’re built through sacrifice, discipline, faith, and the refusal to quit. Some days are harder than others. Some days you feel unstoppable. Other days you simply put one foot in front of the other and keep moving. But if the mission is worthy, you keep going. Not because it’s convenient. Because it’s important. So here’s my question for you: What mission are you willing to lose sleep over? What purpose is big enough that you’ll keep showing up even when you’re tired, discouraged, or facing setbacks? Drop it in the comments. I’d love to hear what you’re building. Strength. Purpose. Legacy.
3:30 AM
1 like • 28d
getting on track to helping others
I’m going to be honest with you guys
The last couple of weeks have been tough. Business pressure. Work pressure.Family responsibilities. Life stacking up faster than I could process it. And if I’m being real, I’ve let some things slide. My cardio disappeared. My gym routine became inconsistent. Even my cold plunges stopped. For me, cold plunging isn’t about being hardcore. It’s about mental clarity. It’s one of the things that helps me reset and stay centered. It also helps with the arthritis that likes to remind me I’m not getting any younger. This morning, I looked in the mirror and realized something: Nobody is coming to save me. Not from the stress.Not from the pressure.Not from the excuses. So I got in the cold plunge. Then I headed to the gym. I’m pushing harder today than I have in weeks. Not because I felt motivated. Because I needed to. As I worked through the discomfort, I started getting clarity back. I started seeing where I’ve been slipping. I started seeing where I’ve been making excuses. And I was reminded of something we talk about inside Rebel Wealth all the time: You cannot lead others where you are unwilling to go yourself. If I’m going to build this movement, I need to be the walking billboard for the message. Not perfect. But committed. Committed to God.Committed to my wife.Committed to my family.Committed to my health.Committed to my purpose. The mirror doesn’t lie. When I look at it, there’s only one man responsible for where I am today. And there’s only one man responsible for where I go next. If you’ve been feeling off lately, don’t beat yourself up. Just get back to the fundamentals. One prayer.One workout.One cold plunge.One conversation.One day at a time. Now your turn: What’s one habit you’ve been neglecting that you need to recommit to this week?
I’m going to be honest with you guys
1 like • May 31
I had also lost my focus, I felt my dream of helping more men was gone. And so the daily/weekly activity went. So I took a re-set for a week and let me see how bad I felt when I was not focusing on what I wanted.. the pain was hard, the overthinking was horrendous and my soul felt like it left forever. After knowing that this was all done to me, I stopped and then imagine where I wanted to go and saw light, so started on me again, daily activity, looking at everything I do and getting feedback to make the changes I needed to
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