Here is a video reply to a question in our community.

I know that it is my responsibility to do the things necessary with the hope of fixing marriage. One of those things is initiating talks with my wife. The issue for me is I don't know what to talk about and I feel like a broken record we go in a cycle of the same topics. I know it's not her fault as I was the one that created this mess. I guess I want to know how to talk through things where is feels like progress?

Here is a question that was asked in our community about how to reconnect even when separated. I hope this helps.

D-Day is almost four months ago. I cheated in that I broke agreements - repeatedly. My partner threw me out so were seperated in every way at the moment. I'm trying to reconnect, ideally to start a new relationship with her, failing that, to give us opportunity to heal. This program has been a big part of that, even though right now it's only me using it to get to my core issues and stop cheating in all ways. She appreciates that very much, but also often feels like I have no vision for us both, making her feel left behind. What would be a good way to connect? Stuff I do apart from meeting regularly for talks include being more proactive in general, or offering help with stuff like groceries, as she has a neuralgia that makes it hard for her to leave the house. That also rules out ideas like taking walks, asking her out for dinner/cinema/live concerts, which we used to do a lot when we had a relationship and things were better healtwise. Any input is appreciated!

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