Today we hired a woman who had never been surrounded by safe masculinity. She learned early that if she didn’t fight to be heard, she would disappear. That stayed with me. When you shift your frequency, something subtle but powerful happens: you begin to listen to yourself. And when you can truly hear yourself, you no longer need to shout to be heard by others. Without safe masculine energy around me, I could never afford to be safe in my feminine. Many women aren’t loud because they want to be — they’re loud because silence was never safe. Women need to feel heard. Too often, they aren’t. So they raise their voices. They harden. They fight. But safety changes the world. Not fights. When you shift yourself into safety, you stop battling the world — and the world begins to respond differently. A few questions to reflect on and share if you feel called: - When was the last time you felt truly safe to speak? - Do you notice yourself getting louder when you don’t feel heard? - What shifts for you when you choose safety over defense? Share your thoughts below. -Laina

As the New Year begins, a lot of us are thinking about goals, intentions, and who we want to become. But before any resolution can hold… there’s a quieter frequency underneath it: Self-worth. Not the loud, confident kind. The subtle one that asks: Am I really allowed to want more? Am I actually qualified to hold space for this? Is my voice necessary when so many others already exist? If you’re feeling any form of imposter syndrome right now, I want you to hear this clearly: Imposter syndrome doesn’t mean you don’t belong. It means you’re expanding faster than your nervous system is used to. We don’t lead because we’re finished or flawless. We lead because we’re willing to be present, honest, and in process. This year isn’t about proving your worth. Its about assuming it. You don’t raise your frequency by becoming someone else. You raise it by letting yourself be fully seen where you are. No shrinking and No waiting for permission. That’s the real New Year shift. Journal Prompts (Take 5–10 minutes) 1. Where in my life am I still waiting to feel “worthy enough” before moving forward? 2. What part of me am I afraid to share because it feels unfinished or imperfect? 3. If I trusted that my lived experience is enough, what would I allow myself to create this year? 4. What would change if my self-worth was the starting point—not the reward? Gentle Reflection (Optional to Share) What is one place in your life where you’re choosing to stop waiting for permission this year? Laina

For a long time, I believed growth meant control. Planning more. Fixing faster. Holding everything together tighter. But nothing actually shifted until I gave up the war. The moment I relaxed into what I could not control—people, timelines, outcomes, emotions—something inside me softened. And that softness created space. Less gripping. Less forcing. Less proving. More listening. More allowing. More trust in what was already moving beneath the surface. Growth doesn’t always look like effort. Sometimes it looks like surrender. Like letting life breathe through you instead of bracing against it. When I released control, I didn’t lose direction. I found alignment. And from alignment… growth followed naturally. Reflection • Where are you still trying to control the outcome? • What might shift if you allowed things to be exactly as they are today? You don’t have to fix this moment to grow from it. Sometimes growth begins the instant you stop resisting it. -Laina