I AM someone who sees the truth about my relationships because because I have grown toward my new Identity and it is easier to see what is good for me and what is not.

Today was a good day, as we went to the zoo for my granddaughters Bday, with lots of people around and lots to see I had nothing that could bother me or make me lose my calm. This is the new me.

Today we played netball at regional champs, my team did well and qualified for provincial champs. The kids take a lot from you on the day as they look at you for encouragement and guidance to do their best and not realizing that all the work you put in comes to this day and this moment. But the new me stood firm and work around all the issues of the day with out getting mad at umpire calls and players making a bad play. The old me would do stuff much different. So I am proud of myself and my team.

After a hard coaching session with the kids, it is hard to get back to focus on yourself. But the new me gets right up and work toward my new Identity. I have to keep busy and keep my mind from thinking procrastination. The curve balls like no internet and so on make working on myself bit harder but not impossible.

Because of the way I crew up, my mind set was to please because I was always told I'm not good enough and then always had to make sure everything is in order or right. So now that I'm in control of my new Identity process I do not let that happen but sometimes I still start in that trend but I correct myself as it is not the new me. So I have to constantly keep myself in check and stop, think, breath and then decide my action.