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https://www.huffpost.com/entry/death-estranged-sister-grief-boundaries_n_69e74537e4b0fa6ffe8eb9a5?ref=bffbhuffpost&ncid_tag=fcbklnkushpmg00000063&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&utm_campaign=us_main&d_id=11925479
2 likes • 10d
I think that we each have the right to choose what we do and more importantly don’t do in this kind of situation. No one knows what their relationship was like and no one should be telling her what “the right thing” to do is. Some time we invest so much of ourselves into a relationship and that investment is not reciprocated. Then we reach a point where we start caring for ourselves and people don’t appreciate the strength that takes and if we happen to heal ourselves along the way then we owe it to ourselves to protect the progress we have made. Giving in to the demands that we should visit our dying “whatever”, sister, brother, parent, etc in a situation like this could undo all the progress and healing that we worked so hard for. Just my opinion. Thanks for sharing this!
RESCHEDULING ZOOM MEETING!
Hi everyone 💫 I’m going to reschedule tomorrow’s Kundalini Awakening Zoom so I can show up fully present and feeling my best. I’ve had some unexpected health stuff come up tonight, and I’d rather give this conversation the energy and care it deserves. I’ll announce the new date soon ❤️! Thank you for understanding! ~Carla Welch
RESCHEDULING ZOOM MEETING!
1 like • 23d
I hope you’re feeling better soon
0 likes • Apr 17
Good for you! You gotta put yourself first and take care of yourself!!
My first time helping someone else with ACP
Today during my cancer treatment, I’m met a couple who was dealing with the recent new diagnosis of metastatic kidney cancer, and the husband was there for his first palliative chemotherapy treatment and waiting to start palliative radiation treatments. As I talked to them, I learned that they did have a medical power of attorney and a generic advance directive to their physicians that was set up during their estate planning with their lawyer. After personally learning how woefully inadequate that generic directive to the physicians is in the state of Texas, I told them a little bit about myself; my background and training as an advanced care planner. I emailed the wife, who is now caring for her husband and making all decisions, the Emery Care guide as well as the Texas Advanced Directive that is available through the AARP website. I gave her my contact information and told her to reach out to me. I also discussed palliative care and hospice care with them to make sure that they engage that early and not wait until the last minute. It Felt like a pretty big win being able to help somebody else, especially when they’re dealing with this terminal diagnosis which will likely be terminal sooner than later. It was very clear that they had a lot on their plate given that this is a new diagnosis and it’s already spread to his bone and brain. I over heard a conversation the wife was having with Medicare for approval to pay the $4,500 copay for the chemo over time. I told them that I offer this service for free as I’m blessed to not need the money for doing this. I plan to follow up next week to see if they want to setup a meeting
1 like • Apr 17
@Carla Welch thanks 🙏. I hope you’re doing well!
Expectation vs Reality
Greetings my fellow travelers! I started the year with GREAT intentions of attending 365 classes and working through the Soul Injury book. What is it they say about “best laid plans”, and who is “They” anyway?!? Since starting treatment for my leukemia/lymphoma I have found that my expectations are not lining up with my reality. I’m still working through the Soul Injury book and find it to be one of the best books I’ve ever read on multiple levels. I’m going through treatment and it’s definitely working which is GREAT, but I’m finding that it leaves me fatigued at the most unexpected times. I hope to see y’all at the next class. May the universe continue to shine on you in the most wonderful ways!!
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Jim Cavanaugh
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Everybody dies, not everybody lives! We live with a terminal condition called life. We only get one shot at it, hopefully we do it well!!

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