Hello, I'm sorry to be such a noob, but is there any way I can change my settings so people can join my group.Immediately instead of needing my approval?

Introduce yourself! 👋 I'm here to introduce to the world a tragically misunderstood disorder. Borderlines aren't dramatic. Or manipulative. The behaviors seen in BPD are physiological and emotional symptoms of the condition. Thats it. Brain science. Some people are wired for emotion, re- wire for focus, flow and freedom.

Hello everyone! Not Manipulative is a space for people who have been misunderstood for feeling deeply. It’s for those who were taught to question their emotions instead of listening to them. For those who learned to over-explain, over-apologize, or stay silent just to keep the peace. This movement exists to create language for experiences that were never given words — especially for people navigating trauma, emotional sensitivity, or BPD. Here, we don’t shame emotions. We don’t minimize reactions. We don’t pathologize survival. Instead, we honor self-awareness, emotional honesty, and the quiet strength it takes to choose yourself in a world that often tells you not to. Not Manipulative isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering who you were before you were taught to disappear. This space is for: people learning to trust themselves again people redefining boundaries without guilt people choosing calm over chaos people healing out loud, softly, bravely You don’t have to perform here. You don’t have to justify your pain. You don’t have to explain your worth. You’re already enough. You always were.

Welcome Chere! Thank you so much for joining! ❤️