Start with the negative, followed by the positive, leaving the other person feeling appreciated. Leave them with the feeling you want them to remember. People don’t remember what you said but do remember how you made them feel. 😊❤️ https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=y5tdAumhEkk&pp=ugUEEgJlbg%3D%3D&ra=m

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Have you ever identified as an "empath?" or someone who is sensitive to people's energy? When you walk into a room you can read peoples energy You can tell peoples true intentions just by their energy And you are a caring person who usually helps others The shadow side of this is that you may abandon yourself to make people happy As a kid you learned to EXPAND your energy field to include mom and dad and then THEIR tension became your thing to manage and if you didn’t want to feel their pain or tension you feel you must be the one to ease it For me this showed up as losing myself around people and feeling the burden of emotional regulation for those in my family and life Because I had a step mom in my life from 7-16 who was very strict and hard to please… I developed a pattern of pleasing and overgiving to stay "safe" This was frustrating because I would then attract people in relationship I felt I had to "fix" I felt like I would tolerate toxic dynamics with larger than life friends who I had to accommodate, people who were hard to please and also emotionally unavailable people too Empaths tend to have a very HIGH tolerance for toxic energy because it felt familiar in childhood we HAD to abandon themselves to survive so it was normalized The challenge with this in relationship is that with this pattern you attract emotionally unavailable people, controlling people, overtakers and people who don’t see or accept the real you People may WANT love and at the same time subconsciously BLOCK it because love may mean "regulating someone else's nervous system 24/7 For me everything changed when I broke my core pattern around people pleasing I had to release the anger under the surface for all the times I abandoned myself I had to release the anger towards my step mom and my dad for allowing it to happen I had to release the anger towards my mom and dad for not making it work and divorcing when I was 5 (this is a new one I realized recently) And once I learned to be in my own frame of reality, safe in my body, and let other peoples be THEIR tension not mine…