đ Community Rules â The Happy Horse and Rider Lab
These rules exist to protect the learning space, not to police people. 1ď¸âŁ Lead with Curiosity Share experiences, observations, and questionsânot ultimatums. Instead of: âYou should justâŚâ Try: âWhatâs worked for meâŚâ âHave you consideredâŚâ âIâm curious what happens ifâŚâ 2ď¸âŁ Horse-First, Always Advice should consider: - The horseâs physical comfort - Emotional state - Learning history If a suggestion prioritizes control over understanding, it doesnât belong here. 3ď¸âŁ No Discipline or Method Shaming All disciplines and backgrounds are welcome. This is not a place to: - Dismiss others based on discipline - Promote superiority of one system - Mock âless advancedâ questions We learn across disciplines here. 4ď¸âŁ Behavior Is Information We donât label horses as: - Stubborn - Lazy - Dominant - Bad Describe what you see and whatâs happening, not what you assume. 5ď¸âŁ Debate Ideas, Not People Disagreement is okay. Disrespect is not. - No personal attacks - No sarcasm aimed at individuals - No âgotchaâ replies If a conversation stops being productive, moderators may step in. 6ď¸âŁ No Fear-Based or Punitive Advice Advice rooted in: - Intimidation - Flooding - Escalation for compliance - âMake them learnâ thinking âŚwill be removed. Discussion about these approaches is welcome. Promotion of them is not. 7ď¸âŁ This Is Not a Marketplace - No unsolicited promotions - No DMing members to sell services - No affiliate links without permission If you have something valuable to share, ask first. 8ď¸âŁ Protect Psychological Safety - No diagnosing horses or humans - No shaming emotional responses - No minimizing someoneâs experience Growth happens best in safety. 9ď¸âŁ Stay Engaged, Stay Kind If you post a question: - Be open to feedback - Stay involved in the discussion - Remember: learning is collaborative đ Moderator Discretion To maintain the integrity of this space: - Posts may be edited or removed - Repeat violations may result in removal