Do you often wake up at 3:00 AM and struggle to get back to sleep? This is a very common problem. In this video, I share my own concept of the Golden Ratio Breathwork (4-7-8) to help you calm your nervous system, slow down your heart rate, and drift back off to sleep. What you will learn: - Why waking up in the middle of the night is often completely normal. - How to use my 4-7-8 breathwork technique correctly (using a gentle pause rather than a rigid hold). - The importance of your mindset and attitude when managing night-time waking. I want to clear something up, because there’s a lot of mixing and matching online: 🔸 4-7-8 breathing was popularised by Dr Andrew Weil and comes from the ancient yogic practice of pranayama. It’s built on the idea that the breath is a bridge between body and mind. 🔸 The golden ratio (about 1 to 1.618) is a proportion found throughout nature, in spirals, shells, sunflowers and petals. Some teachers use it as a breathing pattern, with the out-breath about 1.6 times longer than the in-breath. It’s a separate practice from 4-7-8. 🔸 Tesla is often linked to breath counts online, but his famous fascination was with the numbers 3, 6 and 9. There’s no evidence he practised or taught 4-7-8. These ideas get blended together because they share something beautiful: rhythm, proportion and the sense that there’s wisdom in pattern. What truly connects them is that the out-breath is longer than the in-breath. That’s what calms the body. So when I talk about the golden ratio, it is my own concept and not the widely contested version found elsewhere online. It is simply my personal rhythm that I find really works. Here’s what I have learned: it’s called breathwork, but it isn’t really work at all. It’s about doing less. Softening. Not holding on. Breathe in gently through the nose for 4 Pause softly for 7. Let it all go through the mouth for 8 That long out-breath is the key. It tells your nervous system that you’re safe and it’s okay to rest.

Can the Alexander Technique, a 100-year-old secret to breathing, posture and movement actually lead to a deeper connection and better relationships? In today’s episode, host Katy Rickitt talks with Alexander Technique and Breathwork expert James Power to explore the surprising link between how we carry our bodies and how we experience relationships with other people. Most of us think of the Alexander Technique as a way to reduce back or neck pain, but as James explains, it’s often about cultivating whole body awareness and waking up the conscious mind. When you release the chronic tension that blocks your breath and disrupts your presence, your nervous system shifts from "fight, flight freeze" to a state where you can truly connect with yourself and others. In this episode, we dive into: The "Kissing Tension" Trap: Why over-eagerness and physical "reaching" can hinder a genuine spark. The Easygoing breath: How James helps clients drop the tension in their muscles to become more physically present. How to Experience Connection: Shifting from "performing" a movement to allowing a shared, authentic experience. The Anatomy of Presence: Why a free neck leads to a more open and genuine version of yourself. Whether you're looking to lower your daily stress levels or want to bring a new level of mindfulness to your relationships, this conversation will change the way you move, breathe, and connect. Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro: Is your posture affecting your connection? 0:35– What is the Alexander Technique? (Beyond just sitting up straight) 1:57 – How stress manifests as physical armour. 5:31 – Cultivating an easygoing and responsive body. 10:35 – The secret to truly experiencing connection with a partner. 11:12 – James Power’s tips for effortless kissing and less stress. 25:23 – Closing thoughts with Katie & James. About Our Guest: James Power is a certified Alexander Technique practitioner dedicated to helping people rediscover their natural poise and ease.

In this clip, I share how breathwork helped me navigate one of the most difficult times in my life—the loss of my father. I was struggling with physical pain, isolation, and a loss of confidence until I discovered the power of the "Whispered Ah" technique. Not only did it help me release tension and respond differently to the world, but it also has amazing effects on others—like the student who improved his back pain and even found a new connection with his wife! Join me as we explore how breathwork isn't just about posture; it's about your whole self. Learn more on instagram: @findyourbackbone

Most breathwork advice tells you to "take" a deep breath—forcing air in and out to a strict count. But did you know this habit often creates extra tension in your body? In this session, we break down why shift in attitude matters far more than technique. Instead of forcing or "taking" air, learn the power of simply allowing your breath to flow naturally.

Just under ten years ago I stood in St John’s church about to speak to a packed congregation at Christmas. I had not slept well in weeks because my baby daughter seemed to think sleep was for wimps. I was so stressed about speaking in public. My heart was racing and I was considering leaving as I felt so awful. Then I remembered the breathwork I learned years ago and in a few moments somethings changed. Sometimes it takes a situation like this to wake you out of bad habits. I was determined to make sure I never felt like this again and I started doing breathwork again most days. It was a quiet process and one I kept very secret. So last Thursday at St John's Church in Knutsford, something special happened. What started as Breathwork training for our NHS and emergency services quickly grew into something so much bigger: a room full of people from all walks of life, coming together to breathe, slow down and reconnect. We're living through a time of so much stress and pressure. I know firsthand how powerful Breathwork can be, because it has genuinely changed my own life. Seeing that same shift happen for others is why I do this. Thank you to everyone who came and brought such open hearts to the room. If you would like to find out more about group and one to one Breathwork training let me know. #Breathwork