I could really use a discussion board or even a workshop to help my family work through conflicts. My adult son has returned home and my boyfriend of four years flip-flops about him being here. It's overwhelming and I'm exhausted from playing the referee all the time. My son and I talked and he's fine with the guy but gets mad when my boyfriend ghosts me. He doesn't like seeing me in that pain. He has told my boyfriend that but other times my boyfriend gets jealous of my son being around. I haven't seen my son in 15 years, and I wish we could be a family. I'm not kicking my son out. When he is ready to leave, it will be his choice but you're not going to tell me to choose. No, my son has nothing to do with my boyfriend ghosting me. He's been doing this off and on for four years, up to three months at a time. His family and friends have been paying him off to leave me but then randomly shows up at my house trying to buy me back. Now he's just using my son as his excuse to leave but of course won't admit to that because nothing is ever his fault. His parents taught him well.

Hi! I’m Jackie! I’m hoping to find a judge free space to go to ( and by “go” I mean “run”) for venting and advice.