How I'm dealing w/ feeling torn in multiple directions. Family| Business| Responsibilities
Ever feel like youāre being torn in three directions at once? Family⦠business⦠responsibilities⦠and somehow youāre supposed to carry all of it while chasing big goals? I hit that wall this week. I thought I was overwhelmed because of the tasks -- business, family, houses, personal goals. But the real problem wasnāt the workload. It was the identity conflict. Iām trying to be:⢠- A present dad - A founder chasing $1M - The guy who fixes every house issue - A supportive husband - And the GOAT of anime All at once. That tension is what drains you.. not the work. And it makes sense: my strengths naturally pull me toward big ideas, deep relationships, and wanting to do it all myself. Hereās what changed everything: 1. Pick one North Star. Not five directions. ONE. 2. Stop owning problems that someone else could handle. 3. Treat home as fuel, not guilt. 4. Keep only the promises to myself that actually matter. Once I admitted the real issue, the pressure dropped immediately. So let me ask you: What identity conflict is actually causing your overwhelm right now? Drop it below.. someone else probably needs to hear it too.