Husbands: 💪 1. Give her a real break. Take the kids for 2–3 hours so she can rest, nap, or do something she loves without pressure. 2. Plan a surprise mini-date. It could be coffee + a walk. Show her you thought ahead. 3. Speak life over her. Tell her 3 specific things she’s doing well this week (motherhood, work, marriage). 4. Hold her without rushing. A long, slow 20–30 second hug lowers stress and increases connection. 5. Clean something without being asked. Dishes, laundry, car — small acts communicate huge love. Wives: 👰 1. Show appreciation for his effort. Tell him one thing he does that makes you feel safe, loved, or supported. 2. Initiate physical connection. A back rub, cuddling, kissing first — small intimacy builds big closeness. 3. Ask about his world. “What’s something you’re excited about or stressed about this week?” 4. Affirm his strengths. Men thrive on being reminded they have what it takes. 5. Create a peaceful moment together. Sit outside, watch a show, or go on a walk — no phones, no pressure.

"I’m sorry” matters—but sometimes, your spouse needs something deeper. These 3 words create safety and trust again: A. I Understand – Empathy says, “I get it.” B. I Own It – Responsibility says, “That’s on me.” C. I’m Here – Reassurance says, “You’re not alone.” When apology meets action, healing happens faster than words alone. 💭 Question: Which one does your spouse need to hear? I understand I own it or I’m here

We’re getting ready for this Sundays Married Life live coaching call — and we want your vote on what we should teach! 🗳️ What topic would help you and your spouse most right now? A. ❤️ Trust & Forgiveness — How to rebuild what’s been broken and start fresh. B. 🧱 Rebuilding Connection — How to close the emotional gap and feel close again. C. 💬 Vulnerability & Honesty — How to open up and feel truly seen and heard. D. ✍️ Other: Drop your own idea below — what’s on your heart this week? Comment A, B, C, or D ⬇️ — we’ll teach on the topic that gets the most votes during this week’s live! 🔥 Remember — growth in marriage happens when you lean into what’s uncomfortable. So vote for what challenges you most!

Hey Ya’ll I wanted to get some Date Ideas to do with my husband. What are some of your Date Ideas that you’ve done with your partner?

I have been learning so much on how to be a better wife to my husband. I’ve been working hard and being patient & constant which is paying off. My husband was sleeping on the sofa for a while now and was acting cold & distant BUT Now he is back in bed with me and is opening up and engaging with me again. This is a hug win🙌 I am going to continue to be better and work on saving my marriage. I hope soon he will join this community with me so that he can also learn and gain the tools in making this marriage work as a partnership. As we know, it takes two but baby steps. Thank you Joe and Krissy for your guidance and resources!!! You guys are the best!! ❤️