love this! 🙌 Something I’ve seen again and again: what we believe, we start to experience as true. When it comes to things like size, a lot of people think they know what brings them pleasure. But when we slow down and actually listen to the body, a different story often emerges. I’ve had conversations with women who believed they preferred “more intensity” or “more stimulation,” and when we explored it more deeply, they realized there was actually a kind of numbness there… like needing more to feel something. As the body reconnects, sensitivity changes. Pleasure becomes less about intensity or performance, and more about subtle sensation, presence and how safe the body feels to open. That’s where things can shift in surprising ways. Experiences that feel much deeper, sometimes even expansive, without needing to push or do more. Curiosity is the key to a great lover not his size but that is my personal fav 😜