What if your mind isn’t the problem? Here's the replay from last night's live call "How to Stop Overthinking Everything and End Self--Criticism." Comment below. 👇
I was sorry to miss this live but have finally got around to watching the replay. The concept makes so much sense to me, the ‘practise’ is much tricker but I guess that’s why it’s a ‘practise’. My only comment is that when anxiety comes with so many bodily sensations - nausea, heart pounding, overwhelm - observing and noticing the thoughts becomes almost hi jacked by them and no amount of thinking differently reduces the physical reaction.
@Richard Paterson that makes so much sense. Thank you for your reply. I guess it’s not giving a ‘story’ in the mind to the anxious feelings in the body so that mind body loop doesn’t perpetuate.
Quick check-in: 1. On a scale of 1–10, how noisy is the mind right now? (10 = loudest) 2. How much is it disturbing your peace? (1-10). Drop your numbers below 👇 (Notice I said the mind, not your mind 😉)
Actually not too bad today it’s a 3 but I’ve been focused on work. First thing when I woke up it was an 8 and I was feeling quite anxious. I realised the mind had noticed the anxiety in my body and was trying to make up a story about it. Once I’d notice and acknowledged this and redirected the thoughts it lessened.
A warm welcome to the group. First, we'd love to hear a little bit about you. Where you're from. What your biggest challenge with the mind is. What outcome you'd like to get from being part of the group. Reply below.
Hi, thank you for this space. I’m Emma and I live on Ynys Mon or the Isle of Anglesey where I moved 10 years ago to start my life over after many bereavements and losses only to find of course that the mind came with me! I’ve joined as my over thinking, catastrophising and negative thought spirals have kept me extremely anxious and often depressed over this time and I’m finally starting to realise that my relationship to the mind is key if I want to live a happier and calmer life. I need to learn how to do this 🙏