White Smoke, Black Smoke… What Are You Broadcasting Today?
Let’s face it—none of us are huddled in a Roman chapel casting votes. But that doesn’t stop us from sending our own little puffs of smoke every day. Body language. Tone. Eye twitches in meetings. Yep—smoke signals. Meet Larry. Larry doesn't realize it, but he's been puffing out metaphorical smoke signals at work like a Vatican chimney in conclave season. Eye rolls in meetings? Gray smoke. Smiling at Susan from HR because she brought donuts? White smoke, clearly. Accidentally replying all with “Ugh, not again”? Black smoke. Very black. We all send out these subtle signals every day—our own emotional incense burners of intent, vibes, and chaos. The question is: do you know what kind of smoke you're sending? Relationships thrive—or fizzle—based on the smoke people read. So, unless you're gunning for a papal appointment, it’s probably time to check your signals. Solution? Self-awareness. Humor. And maybe fewer reply-alls.