This past Sunday I was running sound at a church, and after service the pastors pulled me aside to say how much they appreciated my "attitude". Not my mix. Not my gear. My attitude. She said the difference was that I didn’t have “an attitude” when she and the other leaders made suggestions about how things should sound. And let’s be real—this is a super sensitive topic. Most sound guys get butt hurt when they’re told otherwise or when they don’t get glowing feedback. But here’s the truth: - Everybody’s ears are different. - Every church + ministry is different. - Every room has different acoustics. - Not everyone wants it LOUD, and not everyone wants it super quiet. Being a church sound tech isn’t just knobs and faders—it’s people skills.If you don’t know how to work with people, this gig will eat you alive. To truly serve your church, you’ve gotta humble yourself first (James 4:10), and actually listen.And when you get frustrated? Don’t sin (Eph. 4:26-27). Be the difference. Don’t be the grumpy sound guy. Listen to your pastors. Talk with the elders. Communicate with the worship team. You’re not just “running sound.” You’re part of the church body, helping create worship together. Be the fully functional piece that keeps technology and worship flowing side by side—for a better, chill, distraction-free worship experience every Sunday. — Nate