For our coffee chat this morning, I talked about something I think most of us wrestles with — the difference between directing your life and controlling it. There's a moment when you realise that gripping tighter isn't actually giving you more power. It's doing the opposite. True magnetism isn't found in force — it's found in the surrender. When we stop white-knuckling every outcome and instead trust the flow of what wants to move through us, that's when we actually become magnetic to what we desire. This is a concept I go deep into in MAGNETISM: Becoming the Energy That Attracts What You Desire — and this morning's chat unpacked it in a really tender, real way. If this lands for you, the book goes even deeper into how surrender (not control) becomes the energy that draws in the life you actually want: 📖 https://www.amazon.com.au/MAGNETISM-Becoming-Energy-Attracts-Desire-ebook/dp/B0H3VRXP1X I would love to hear — where in your life is control trying to masquerade as safety right now? If you would like to work with me, consider fortnightly alignment sessions. This is where I check in with you every 2 weeks and set you on a personalised pathway to implement more magnetic strategies in your life. Sessions are ongoing, until you no longer need guidance for how you show up in your life: https://www.elaya-jane.com/general-8